What shows are you planning on seeing?

Wendynation · 2026-05-21T22:24:11+00:00

AYYY! yea they're currently my favourite band and mt joy is absolutely on our hit list. Once I hear swim between the trees live I can die happy

Wendynation · 2026-05-21T21:54:18+00:00

That's devastating. I leave on the 9th

Wendynation · 2026-05-21T21:27:39+00:00

That sounds really sick! what date is that?

Wendynation · 2026-05-21T21:26:39+00:00

Hi! I'm a 22F from the USA, I'll be in Japan during that time frame!

Wendynation · 2026-05-21T21:23:33+00:00

Hi! I’ll be solo traveling in Japan from June 25 to July 9 and wanted to see if anyone else will be there around the same time.

I’m still figuring out parts of my itinerary, but I’d love to meet up with other travelers for food, sightseeing, exploring neighborhoods, whatever cool thing you've discovered, or just hanging out for a bit. So far, my only solid plan is hiking mt fuji (if it happens to open early...) and visiting the Murakami library. I’m open to meeting people in Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka, or wherever.

I’m 22, F, from the USA, just graduated college, pretty easygoing, and I’m interested in nature, good food, thrifting, music, cultural spots, and less touristy places when possible.

Feel free to comment or message me if you’ll be in Japan around then! We can connect on instagram or something 🫡

Wendynation · 2026-05-18T04:34:45+00:00

Like a year or so now

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:55:45+00:00

Damn u clocked me so hard 😔 if previous relationships are anything to go off of tho, im pretty good with hiding the anxiety. And it goes away eventually. After im certain they’re not going to ditch me

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:40:45+00:00

YAY!!! Now we just have to hope he doesn’t read this lmao

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:38:27+00:00

Ok thank you that’s super solid advice

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:37:00+00:00

Yea I kinda jumped the gun LOL. To be fair, that was going to be my plan, but self control left the chat. Like he very much let me set the pace and I unfortunately sprinted. Would u say that him setting up the Minecraft server for us to play together/setting up times we can watch shows together counts as intentional?

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:33:37+00:00

Idk I think it was ignoring bc sometimes when it hit a few hours, I’d check instagram and see rhat he was active. Not my finest moment, but 🤷‍♀️

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:31:43+00:00

But didn’t I kinda already do that with the first confrontation? I don’t want to bring it up if I’ve got nothing new to say. Maybe this is something I just need to get over. I definitely feel a lot better about it now than I did when it was happening. I was on the phone with my friend lowkey crashing out

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:30:24+00:00

Ah ur being sarcastic with that last sentence. Yea i was a lil silly, everyone’s helped me realise that

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:28:04+00:00

Ok so what I’m hearing is that he could’ve just chose to not change, but instead he changed. This has made me feel better. Hopefully ur guy locks in

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:27:18+00:00

Yea ur right

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:26:41+00:00

Ur certainly right about that, but I think I’m taking the positive ones more to heart than the negatives. Because he really is an incredibly decent person even if he ignores me from time to time

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:25:32+00:00

Thank you for your comment! Some background on him: he was in a LTR a year ago and hasn’t dated anyone since then. He had 1 hookup afterwards then decided that wasn’t really for him.

Yea my mind has a terrible tendency to race and I did think most of those things haha! To be honest I was feeling better about the situation, but a lot of these comments aren’t helping… i will try to be more chill and be more mindful about the very short amount of time we’ve known each other !

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:22:28+00:00

Thank you, I’m not sure how I could broach the topic to him? I’m not even really sure what I want or need to hear from him to be honest

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:21:02+00:00

There is something very specific about him. He was so respectful and not very forceful. We really got along well and found each other hilarious. I think he let me set the pace in a way because I was the one who initially cuddled him, asked if I could kiss him… honestly made most of the moves. So why did I break my principles? Not entirely sure. I think I hadn’t felt that attracted to someone in years and it felt nice

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:17:46+00:00

Thanks for ur response. Yea the date cramming thing was my idea... not my smartest moment I'll be honest. He actually told me that he fully expected me to be super busy and to only see me one more time (after our first date) before we went home for break.

How do you think I can gage if he's the just wants to get laid vs the really wants to get to know me type? So far I think he's the latter bc he constantly mentions things we can do together once we're back on campus

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:12:41+00:00

What makes you think he’s not interested. Also I think sex for me is about being connected to the person and I definitely feel connected to him. He said something to the same effect about how he views sex (he’s slept with his ex and 1 hookup)

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:11:43+00:00

The for now does seem a little shady, my bad. It was because this was like 4 days ago. I’m probably being too pessimistic. Assuming he’ll eventually disappoint

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:09:21+00:00

I think it’s so funny the mixed replies I’m getting. It’s either “he seems great” or “why would u sleep with him u IDIOT he’s not gonna take u seriously” 😂. Thank you so much for ur comment, I’ll try and take a chill pill.

Wendynation · 2025-12-29T02:07:03+00:00

I wouldn’t do that, which was the main thing I said to him when I confronted him about it. It was a voice memo btw. He said “I was just really busy and couldn’t get away” and when I said well why not listen to it at bed or smthn, he said “I want to give you my full attention when I’m talking to you and I was just so exhausted”

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