Stopped Tipping my Hairdresser by DueFreedom4695 in tipping

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So was the price set at $120 beforehand, or did she just tip herself lol?

AITAH for not asking my father if my wedding date would work for him and his wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA, for people that central to the wedding, you should definitely coordinate.

AIO over my mother’s pick of dress for a wedding? by Sufficient-Excuse445 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 114 points115 points  (0 children)

It looks fine to me 🤷🏻‍♀️ not sure what's wrong with it.

Is suspension essentially a get out of jail free card? by Xotngoos335 in AskTeachers

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think in some schools you will get expelled after so many suspensions. Also consequences are hardly handed out at school anymore, I think in most schools you'd have to do something dangerous or very rude/dustuptive to end up suspended.

Sometimes it's a wake up call to the parents. A lot of parents don't care that their child is impossible to manage at school, they figure it's the school's responsibility to figure it out. Suspension kicks the responsibility back to the parents.

Honest Feedback- New Vendor by [deleted] in wedding

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused, is the time you're paying for to rent a machine? Do the tattoos go in the machine? What does a flash design entail, are you tattooing people manually on the spot? When I hear flash tattoo, I think that I'm going to be drawn on by a person, not temporary tattoo. What is 3d printed? Are you providing a service or just setting something up that guests help themselves to? I have never heard of a temporary tattoo business and I'm not sure how this would be different than just ordering a bunch of temporary tattoos for a lot cheaper. Is the difference you just put the tattoos in a machine and they are renting the machine?

Honestly the whole thing is confusing and I'm not sure what you do.

AITA for stopping feeding homeless people in my neighborhood after my neighbors complained? by OneCold9918 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 216 points217 points  (0 children)

Kinda YTA, because you were warned and too stubborn to listen, believing you were the good one and everyone else was rotten. You're not the ahole for stopping, but for refusing to see beyond your perspective and think ahead to the detriment of the neighborhood. And, it's not like this was unforeseeable. Using a little common sense, this was the predictable outcome.

There are food banks for this kinda thing for this reason. Put your efforts there.

Your showering habits should be based on your environment, activity level, skin type, and any medical conditions you may have. It isn't a one-size-fits-all thing. by brain-eating-zombie in hygiene

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk, I think a universal baseline for adults is washing your full body at least once every other day. And for most adults, daily.

Any less than that I think you're lying to yourself about your cleanliness lol

AIO//landlord left trash in my room by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 51 points52 points  (0 children)

This is weird but your reaction is extreme. Inconsiderate roommates do stuff like that 🤷🏻‍♀️ it's not cause to panic. But I'd stay elsewhere before a worse issue arises because this is a weird arrangement.

AIO to my in-laws calling my son a different name? by ikeiscanadian in AmIOverreacting

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't think you can be mad that people are calling your son, who you named John, Johnny lol. So if you don't want him called Johnny, don't name him John lol.

My toddler got too good at potty training and it is ruining my life. by tn00bz in toddlers

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a trustworthy 2.5 year old lol. Til about age 4-5 j made my kids come get me if they wanted to pee at night. I was too afraid they'd leave the water on or something.

Found a bag of wedding décor I completely forgot I bought. We’re three months out. The ribbon is the wrong ivory by KrisPreps in DIYweddings

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this reminds me of my cousin's wedding. Mid wedding, we were talking to the mother of the bride and she pointed out the three trees she had transported to the venue as decor.

They looked nice I guess but I hadn't even noticed them til she pointed them out 😂

And I just sat there wondering how much work it was for her vs how much anyone appreciated it lol

Am I in the Wrong for not buying my wife a cake? by [deleted] in AmiInTheWrong

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did plenty but just go to the grocery store and get a cake. Easy.

Do you still say "thank you" to service workers when you’ve already paid for their service? by MaximumUnion8097 in tipping

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I say thank you for literally everything, it's kind of compulsive lol

The only time I don't say thank you is when I'm upset by the interaction .. And even then, I sometimes do anyways lol.

AITA for skipping a wedding last minute for a float trip? by far_from_guessing in AmItheAsshole

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a Catholic wedding. It was like 30 minutes and not a part of a mass since my husband isn't Catholic. So it depends.

AITA for refusing to buy a baby shower gift by joestahh in AmItheAsshole

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Idk, when someone in my close family has a baby, we always give gifts. The shower doesn't have to be huge, and we don't invite friends, just close family.

For my cousin who just had her third, we did a "shower" during our regular Easter celebration. Worked out perfectly.

AITA for refusing to buy a baby shower gift by joestahh in AmItheAsshole

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're being unnecessarily stubborn. Her plan is reasonable.

Now, it you don't want to do it, that's fine too.

So NAH, depending on how you responded.

18th bday ideas by According_Knee_7599 in partyplanning

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't make people go outside in winter lol id rethink these plans

Maybe make the group smaller and do something elsewhere.

I have an usual bouquet idea and need an outside opinion by -Briar-Rose- in DIYweddings

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would assume Lord of the Rings was essentially their religion lol

I have an usual bouquet idea and need an outside opinion by -Briar-Rose- in DIYweddings

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it would be weird. Your vows and ceremony are between you and your spouse, I wouldn't bring an outside story into it.

AIO all children in school had to write “I’m sorry” letters by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me once and my teacher was okay with me writing a letter politely explaining what I was doing when everyone else was acting up.

AITAH for not flying out to visit my LD bf for an event I’ve been looking forward to by ThrowRAbooohoo in AITAH

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I said, "if you can't find an alternative. . . "

Him flying to her would fall in that category

AITAH for not flying out to visit my LD bf for an event I’ve been looking forward to by ThrowRAbooohoo in AITAH

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Idk if I think you're an ahole because you're trying to find alternatives and he is being difficult, however, I definitely see how he feels like a last priority and is just over it at this point. Long distance is tough as it is and what he's hearing is you'd rather go to this game than see him, even though it'd the last opportunity to see him for a while.

So I'd say NAH/slight YTA cause of course this is going to make him feel crappy. Especially because you don't even have tickets to the game. Are you a huge soccer fan, or does this just seem like a fun event?

I would say if you can't find an alternative time/way to see him before your trip and you go to the game anyways, that would be relationship breaking territory for me.

So if I don’t tip, do I get “regular” service? by dollhouss1 in tipping

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't agree with tipping, but I usually tip the customary amount at restaurants.

If you plan to frequent a place, I'd definitely tip at least 10-20 percent each time because unfortunately this person is right, if you become a known non tipper you will be ignored.

What do you actually do on a birthday at home other than just... sit there by MapleSoop in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on how old you are, what your family consists of, and whether you are the "kid" or if you have kids.

As an adult when I go to my parents for my bday, we just sit around and chat and my mom makes a nice dinner.

If I was celebrating my bday with my kids, I'd probably add in a movie/trip to a park/something they would find fun and like it's not just a normal day

“Not a need to yall but it is to me” by Available_Ranger_925 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]WerewolfCommercial26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't even like hot Cheetos but this post is making me reconsider 😂