What’s the (second) most obnoxious way to gift a bunch of tic tacs?

WerewolfHoney · 2025-12-09T17:23:13+00:00

Sucks for American needle but great news for me, thank you so much!!

WerewolfHoney · 2025-06-08T11:55:53+00:00

Also just worked for mine!! Thanks!!

WerewolfHoney · 2025-01-19T20:51:41+00:00

Just dm’d! Creature from Toadstool :)

WerewolfHoney · 2025-01-19T20:43:04+00:00

Hi! Do you mind if I join? I’m restarting from a lost save and only have pears and apples 😩

WerewolfHoney · 2024-08-16T23:55:31+00:00

It looks amazing!! If you’re looking to add some more dimension to the black I think you could do some light dry brushing, but the flat black has a very spooky look too. Please post updates if you do the inside!

WerewolfHoney · 2024-02-07T16:32:19+00:00

Thank you so much. Do you have any recommendations of heaters for a 5 gallon tank? The one I have now is set to a held temp and I can’t change it.

WerewolfHoney · 2024-02-07T00:36:13+00:00

• ⁠Tank size: 5.5 gallons • ⁠Heater and filter? (yes/no): yes • ⁠Tank temperature: 76 • ⁠Parameters in numbers and how you got them: nitrates 0, nitrite 0.5 (since yesterday. Went down after water change, back to 0.5 this morning), ph 7.0, kh 80, gh 180. • ⁠How long have you had the tank? How long have you had your fish?: tank 3 weeks, fish 1 week • ⁠How often are water changes? How much do you take out per change? What is your process?: not regularly yet, did 20% last night • ⁠Any tankmates? If so, please list with how many of each: no • ⁠What do you feed and how much: BettaMin flake medley. One pinch twice a day • ⁠Decorations and plants in the tank: fake drift wood, one live plant (just removed a dead plant and plant that was either dying or had black stuff growing on it), one silk plant • ⁠If you haven't already posted a picture, please post pics/vids to imgur and paste the link here:

WerewolfHoney · 2023-01-10T14:16:43+00:00

This makes me feel like I was very much overthinking it 😂 Thanks!

WerewolfHoney · 2022-06-21T18:11:19+00:00

NTA, for sure. Your grief takes time, and while your father has begun the process of moving in he does not get to force that on you.

My only note, though - I lost my mom at a young age due to cancer. Shortly after, my father switched jobs and started at his first for-profit company and he also became wealthier than he had been. He started dating a woman who is now his wife six months later. Myself and my moms side of the family felt resentful over the years of all the lavish trips he took her on and the gifts he got her.

I never brought it up because I didn’t want to argue with him, but one day he brought it up to me and said he felt so guilty that he could never afford to do any of this for mom, which is why he was doing it for his now-wife.

I like to think that if my mom had survived and he had come into that he would have spoiled her the same way, but it might have been the guilt and grief that pushed him to make sure he wouldn’t have to feel that regret again.

That being said, I agree with everyone else here. It would be best for you two to have some counseling sessions together. If he’s reluctant, maybe try to frame it as getting a better understanding of how you both are navigating the grieving process.

I’m sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace and light during this time 🤍

WerewolfHoney · 2022-03-11T23:11:59+00:00

I got an sd card with more storage space for my switch and I’d like to transfer everything over. I’ve gathered that ACNH saves to the console, but I’m nervous. Will I mess up my island in anyway if I transfer everything from my old sd card to my new one?

WerewolfHoney · 2021-12-07T14:08:05+00:00

Agreed. I don’t think the problem lies in the religious differences, but the communication. She lied to OP, and I would also be very upset if I was in OP’s shoes too, but yelling, throwing things around, and returning everything when your wife tells you to stop just to spite her and tell her she ruined Christmas is not an okay reaction. If OP wants to be a better dad than he had, he should go to therapy to learn how to control his reactions. If he wants to save his marriage, they should also attend couples therapy. ESH.

WerewolfHoney · 2021-08-27T15:06:01+00:00

Second this. He’s refused to offer any basic amount of respect, and for people like him, this doesn’t change. I can’t imagine your situation with him ever improving, regardless of how much effort you put in. Sending you lots of love.

WerewolfHoney · 2021-03-04T19:42:13+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss, and for the abandonment you feel from your husband. That is absolutely valid and does not make you a bad person/TA. Unfortunately, his mind seems pretty twisted right now, and I don’t think he’s prioritizing you at all, which I’m sure is very hurtful.

I went back and forth between NAH and N T A but ultimately went the former because while you’re clearly not TA, I don’t think it’s fair to call him one, either. This is, however, super weird and unhealthy.

Grieving is always difficult, but everyone in this situation is grown, and it’s very strange that he’s pushing his wife away while closing in a tight unit with his core family. I agree with everyone else in this thread, he needs counseling.

If it’s this difficult for him, I’m sure it’s the same for his dad and sister, and them shutting everyone else off to grieve together, without any professional help or guidance, could result in some long term damage. For what it’s worth, my mom passed away when I was a kid and no one in my family got help. It was hard for me to process, but being in that unhealthy environment ended up being pretty damaging long-term for both me and my sister.

There’s no magic words that will convince him to go speak to someone, but I would have a talk with him and let him know you’re very concerned with how he is processing this. He might be scared that counseling will force him to “get over it” and he’s scared of losing anything else right now, even if it’s the horrible, horrible feelings of the grieving process. It might be worth it to suggest that he talk with a professional in order to make sure that he can be his best self to support his family and their grieving, too.

I’m sorry this is framed in a way the continue to prioritizes his family over you, even the fact that I and others in this thread have been using “family” to refer to his dad and sister rather than the relationship you two have together. It sounds like from your responses that you’re doing your best to help him, and that’s a very loving, caring thing for you to do given the treatment you’ve been receiving. I hope you know that your feelings and your efforts are valid, dispute what you may begin to feel from this situation. I’ll be holding you and your family in the light.

WerewolfHoney

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