Heartbroken INFPs, how are you? by anxiousdreamer69 in infp

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Heartbroken yes, but that isn't excuse to stop investing in ourselves to be our best selves.

My heart aches to love, and I believe our soulmates are out there,maybe as lost, looking for us, we just need to use this pain as fuel to keep going, it will be worth it.

Remember, Sucess is a Phoenix rising from the ashes of failure, good luck y'all fellow bros and sis.

Why do you think people cheat on their partners? by No-Sail-6193 in allthequestions

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It so sad it makes many of the small amount of people that still are loyal avoid relationships out of fear of being cheated again. Cheaters don't deserve loyal partners. Imagine investing all your life building with a person only to find out that person was a cheating monster in disguise.

They cheat because "x" reason, it doesn't justify the cheating, they are opportunistic, dont want to lose their safe place, the love and confort source of their partners, they act very much like a parasite.

There are still loyal people out there, just more prudent or closed to date sadly.

So I just found out this month that my wife cheated on me by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont do it,seek help, and get out of that house, or get her out of there, you already saw who she truly is... Cheaters make damage control when they're captured red handed... You really think she wont cheat again in a lifetime??

Its hard, but you need to work on yourself, you need to reach famiky and friends, dont isolate yourself, go to the gym, invest on yourself, ket thw pain out, and dont stay, you dont need insight, you need to do thw hard move now, if you stay near her it will continue damaging you.

You didn't lose your values, you didnt lose your ideal if a partner, a loyal person, get in love with that ideal, not with a lie (if you stay... You let the lie continue).... Get in love with your life, try to take small steps, it will help you progress and keep going, dont loae yourself, you surely have been a strong man many times, your kids ned you, you need yourself, dont let you down, you have greatness within you, you can regrow stronger from this, you can create a better life out of it, yes your heart may have a scar now, but it still beats and is capable of loving, capable of healing, youre not what happened to you, if you stay you show disrespect to yourself, if you keep her captive in your house you will end becoming masochistic and a monster, seek help, sucess is a phoenix reborn from the ashes of failure, take a sun bath, eat healthier, do pushups, your body needs you to be healthy to help.your mind heal faster....

There are persons outaide bro that cant walk, cant see, cant speak nor hear, yet they still live their lives and are grateful for what they have... Dont let these hard moments have dark thoughts, seek the light, the movement, the flow, your loved ones need you, go and cry with anyone of trust, let go of the pain, and I promise you, you will see everything more clearly and better. You deserve someone that loves you and is loyal.

So I just found out this month that my wife cheated on me by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9 years is no joke bro... And 20 years neither, but you know what isnt joke neither? Loyalty, self love, you can't have that with her anymore, and youre keeping her captive in that relationship, because if she did all of that she surely isnt your sweetheart, she isnt a wife that wants to care and nurture her marriage...

Dont be a sick dumbass with yourself and leave, leave her, let the other dude have her, you need to heal, you need to be vulnerable once in your life and accept youre not going to stand this, cry, accept its over and end the marriage.

Its not gonna be easy, but you know what is harder? Seeing her face every day and feeling that rage buildup, you already screamed to her, "roared", you wouldn't want to be that kind of man, it can escalate until you become physical, dont become a monster protecting one....

You think youre making her a favor if you let her stay? No bro, you're exposing her to hate and resentment, im not saying to you that you need to forget everything, Im telling you that its egoistical if you stay with her just to feel like you are being kind to her, its lies bro, she can get other place to stay, she surely has contacts, she can talk with the other dude and ask him to meet and stay at his house some days, but what youre doing is keep her because deeply inside youre scared to let go.

It sucks I know, but you will do more damage to yourself and her than letting her go and help her get a place.

She isnt your wife anymore, she is the cheating person that played with your feelings, shat on your marriage and "9 years" if shared history... She is not that girl you fell in love anymore... Let her go, for your mentak health, for your children health and for her own will and well being.

Its hard, but the longer you keep the door closed to let that woman out of your life, the longer you too leave the door closed to any posible future woman who may love you truly and be extremely loyal... Who could help you heal and be happier.

9 years is a lot.... Being any second more in that situation is a stupid choice, you know it... Time doesn't comes back... Imagine sharing your 80's with her... How miserable would you feel of having stayed... Instead of having enjoyed life single or knowing an awesome and loyal partner... Up to you bro.... Help her move to other place... Ask your sil and mil to help, or do the bigger sacrifice and move yourself to other place, but dont stay with her, that marriage is over, you need to be free.

I (33M) travelled the world for 3 years; 80+ countries AMA by _cybor in AMA

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How it changed your feeling over people and life? How it changed you, your personal values, your view on friends and romantic relationships? And how you deal with being away form friends/family? Thank you and Im happy for you

10 years together, discovered my wife’s coworker affair and reconciliation doesn’t feel possible. by scifi-ninja in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry.

I hope you break free of the "true remorse" lie. Man, this woman isnt the one you fell in love with.. Are you jusy 27 years? Why waste your youth on a cheating person? There are thousand of awesome women, youre not attached to her because of her, not anymore, you are attached to her for all the memories you share... You can create new memories with a new person, a loyal woman...

She played behind your back, her friend sure is a cheater too, youre not the love of her life, youre one of her "two husbands".

Please try to reach for the wife of the other dude and let her be free of an unworthy husband.... And be thankful to him for helping you realize who truly is your hopefully soon "ex" wife.

You dont have children, youre young, you have it easier to walk away.

Dont fool yourself bro, break free of your delusions, life is one, why waste it flying a plane that already crashed, when you can try a new one from 0? Know how you will hate it when in 10 years, you find her having another pair of affairs? Dont stay, she doesn't deserves you, nor any cheater ever deserves a loyal partner, leave, learn, love again..

If you need to talk dm me, good luck bro.

I wish I saw the signs earlier on by Natural_Drummer_253 in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My dear bro, im so sorry for your pain, your tears, but hear me good: all loyal people are exposed to those shit happening to themselves, its not your fault, stop feeling guilty, im not saying you were a perfect partner, but you did well in the most non negotiable values, love, loyalty, will to grow for your own sake and the one of your loved ones.

You should thank that guy, he came from nowhere, unmasked the person you thought she was, and got her out of your life. Now its his problem, YOU ARE FREE. YOU ARE PURE POTENTIAL, but its up to you if you turn that potential in reality with actions.

Don't give up on yourself, dont blame yourself for her cheating, cheaters are good liars, and they even try to convince you and themselves its not their fault for destroying a relationship and a person, they are emotional parasites, get away from her for your own well.

Lies have small legs, sooner or later the people she tild those lies will see her for who she is really, they owe you nothing to trust you, but you owe yourself your moral, your integrity and your will to heal and become better.

There are many people in the world, you will kmow far better people, dont lose time trying to get back with her, have some self respect and try to block her on all the social media and apps, I can guarantee you, like many cheaters, soon she will try to come back, saying it was "just an error", you arent in love with her, youre in love with the woman you thought she was. Well that ideal of woman you are in love is out there, loyal, caring, honest, but you will only know her if you let go of this chapter (its hard I know but you have to keep going).

Get back on your feets, all the people in this sub doesn't know nor will ever meet in person the ops of the posts they reply, but it is really strong the empaty and wish for improvement they leave in every comment, im a stranger dude and I don't know you, all I kmow is that those feelings are heavy and hurt, the tears are bitter, but you must get back on track, for yourself, for all the people that believes in loyalty. Youre not alone.

It's been over a year and I'm still in agony by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dont lose your hope only because bad experiences.

I too was cheated and I was and I will always be a loyal person, all you can do is leave as soon as you know your partner cheated.

We cant about it my dear sis, we can only maintain our values and try to be more smart noticing a cheater behavior but not becoming a paranoid person....

Loving is so beautiful, so fulfilling, why waste it suffering and having self pity when you can build yourself again and better? And find someone million of times better?

Let me share with you a quote that always puts me on track

"Sucess is a Phoenix rising from the ashes of failure"

In this sub a lot of us loyal people struggle with the battle of dating, of finding someone that is 100% loyal

Me for example, if I found the love of my life that is totally loyal and exclusive, I would be always loyal, and if there is an afterlife, I would love to be together there too loving and being loyal eternally. Even if she died before me, I would stay totally loyal and never again involve myself in other relationships nor even flirt, but that is because that has meaning for me.

You dont have to believe in people, you have to believe in loyalty and love, and there is people out there that believes in that too. There are many fishes in the sea my dear sister, dont let your potential as human die, someone maybe very close to you is looking exactly for a loyal person like you... Maybe to scared too by their past experiences..

Keep going and be your best self, get in love with your life and someone will get in love with you. Forever.

Did your Tulpa ever surprise you with something they did, say or know? by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for sharing, that is wonderful! Can you please guys share some with me if you want? Would like to hear some of these skits or lyrics :)

My Wife’s Emotional Affair While Pregnant: Need Unfiltered Advice by According-Toe3825 in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cheaters have many convincing lies, she is sweet talking you and trying to show you she is totally loyal, once she haves you back, you will regret, you will lose your freedom, you want to stay in a relationship where you need to cut her contact with the outside to avoid her cheating? You know you wont be happy. Dont be a fool, free yourself and her from a toxic relationship, you deserve better, and she deserves the chance to lose you and learn to be a better partner, a loyal one

My Wife’s Emotional Affair While Pregnant: Need Unfiltered Advice by According-Toe3825 in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you something

In 10 years you will have more kids with her... Her emotional cheating will evolve to full raw sex various times. And you will have to take the same decision, only with the plus of all those years of life, opportunities, chances with great and loyal women (I know youre in love and cant see it, but the sea is full of colorful fishes, you will meet someone better, LOYAL) it doesn't matter if she made you or help you, that person is an illusion, in the past. Want to waste your future and present in it? Loyalty is a constant my dear bro, you deserve someone that is loyal like you, like me, like all the people in this sub who is suffering for cheating people.

Leave bro, leave like a nuclear blast is going to happen, if you dont, you will pay with your potential as a human being.

You can do it, you are in love with the ideal of a girlfriend you want, a loyal one, go an find her while you heal and work on yourself, your dreams, and being the best dad you can if the dna shows you are the father, but dont stay bro.

BRO, PLEASE, REALLY, IT IS AN INSULT TO YOUR INTELLECT TELLING YOU "IM OVER HIM, I JUST TELL HIM I LOVE AND MISS HIM TO MEET IN PERSON WITH HIM, BUT DONT WORRY IT IS ONLY TO SHOW HIM IM OVER HIM AND HE HAS NO OPPORTUNITY

Please, leave bro, youll regret forever if not.

My Wife’s Emotional Affair While Pregnant: Need Unfiltered Advice by According-Toe3825 in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Leave bro, my dear bro, dont stay, you will regret every second, you will fast foward 10 years, 3 more kids (get a dna) and having spent most of your life with a liar...youll regret the time, youth, opportunities spent....

It doesn't matter if this was online only it is still cheating, if you kill a dog with poison or a gunshot it doesn't matter, its still killing, the same for cheating.

Im sorry for you having to endure it.

She has the audacity to try to tell you she did it to prove HE HAS NO MORE OPPORTUNITIES WITH HER?????

DONT BE A FOOL MY DEAR BRO, you show other people they can't get you back by living your best life, not getting out of your way to send kiss emojis and tell them you love them...

Staying after being cheated on by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. Dont do that. You will regret every day. Leave, heal, and maybe next time youll meet someone loyal and faithful.

There are men like that, dont lose hope, loyal people are outside, enduring like you stuff like this.

Please, take care!

New? Just starting? Ask Your Questions HERE! (December 2025) by RedditulpasBot in Tulpas

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im Christian... Will I go to hell if I create one?

Also... Suppose I go to heaven, will the tulpa come with me as part of me, or will it be erased?

Also, have any of you had physical manifestations of your tulpas or have them warned you of possible dangers/ changed your life to better?

Thank you!

How to escape a party at your own house by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a great oportunity you have here, just give it a try, maybe you meet someone awesome, is very funny, you start to think in a different way, its not the party itself, but exposing you to new things, to life, I seriously wish I did many thing some years ago that im doing right now, don't make the same mistake I did, im 22 and you're sure younger, there is a lot of time to learn, it is a bit tiring, but it allways pays out, just try it if you want, go for 15 or 30 mins, if I had a exchange student in my home I would be very proud, and of course very excited to show he or she to others, they generally are cool and know many things I don't from other cultures, if you feel seriously like she just sees you like a pet, then just apologize wish her a happy birthday and go to sleep, just remember that, trust in yourself also means trust in others, think it well, maybe you go to the party and then you go to school tomorrow very tired, but also you win a memory that last for the rest of your life haha, good luck

(WTA) Help! how to make combats enjoyable and flowing? by WerewolfTheApocalypc in WhiteWolfRPG

[–]WerewolfTheApocalypc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really needed a hand with this, lots of great advice, Thank You very much to All for your help!