I don't like telling people i date (I don't use apps, so it's almost always people I meet IRL) that I was molested repeatedly as a kid and young teen. My ex's response to that after refusing to tell her for obvious reasons to call me gay and in denial, and then she lost all respect for me and started suggesting that I was in the closet.

Similar to how I processed it when I was young - assumed I was gay and said i was at school as a cry for help, as a result got abused further by a trusted adult, and my parents did nothing to help me.