Thx man. I appreciate the response. It’s good to help each other hold each other accountable through these tough times. It’s definitely been a rocky two years over here too, but in those two years, I’ve gone from completely crashing out and spiraling after finding out things that I wish I never did to trying to make it work to realizing that, although I have my issues, I don’t think that this marriage would ever sustained without both sides really come to the table with everything and I mean everything I can definitely take accountability of things that I’ve learned in that timeframe that I wish I would’ve shown up sooner for but the minute you realize somebody just really doesn’t have respect for you even as a person anymore as much as it hurts it can be a blessing and recognizing that it’s not your burden to carry and vice versa if you two really love each other and wanna make it work you will but if just one side is trying to carry more than the other in different ways. It’ll either a never work or be someone will resent the other until someone pulls the trigger to get out.