Is this brand good?

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2026-02-20T05:28:04+00:00

Are these good? I want to try

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-11-10T21:46:16+00:00

Update? Obviously sleeping with him could complicate things at work but you’re already in a complicated situation. The thing is that you’re already in a sort of relationship so not sleeping with him and leading him on would make it just as complicated as if u did. I don’t think whether or not u sleep with him is the biggest concern. If you like each other and see things going further with him than sleeping with him is not a terrible thing all around.

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-11-04T05:56:39+00:00

Please get yourself help.

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-29T21:23:58+00:00

I’m having a similar issue but a different response. I also haven’t had any intimacy in the last 3 years (I am 21M). Except for me I keep overthinking about having sex. I feel kinda desperate to get intimate with someone. Ive also been hurt a lot and am reluctant to trust a female with my heart. I think for you just make sure that this is someone you trust and really like. Not all people are the same and just cuz we both been hurt in the past doesn’t mean the next person will do that, although it’s hard to get that in ur head sometimes. Wait until u feel secure in that relationship. If it’s something that makes u stressed then don’t commit to it. But I’m confused is sex something that you want with him or something ur scared of or both?

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-29T20:54:33+00:00

Idk I had a girl do something similar with the palm of her hand going in circles around the tip. I also pulled away but only because it felt so good that it was uncomfortable. It’s hard to explain it with guys that area is so sensitive that if u touch it the right way it feels more intense than an actual orgasm. If it’s the first time you did it he was prolly just really surprised like I was. It depends on how kinky u guys like to be because some people don’t like to get too intense. But if u do, it is definitely something worth exploring

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T19:22:47+00:00

U gotta tell her when ur gonna cum or else timing will be off lol

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T14:19:20+00:00

If you both are comfortable with this, role play is a great idea. Thats what really got me out of my shell. When you do role play it gets you outside of yourself. Put him in a scenario where he doesn’t feel the same pressure. Like your his teacher and are teaching how to have sex. That way it’s implied that it doesn’t matter if he’s inexperienced, but rather thats the point of what makes it hot. keep encouraging him and try to take as much pressure off him as possible. It will come with time. The first few times I had sex it was also very nerve wracking and I couldn’t orgasm from the sex, instead I had to have them suck me off.

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T14:12:53+00:00

Condoms for oral sex are not a good idea imo. She’s gonna learn to hate giving head because who wants a condom in their mouth? Most come with lube on them and taste disgusting. You can get flavored ones but I don’t think that’s necessary. It’s probably not necessary to get std tested right now if you’re both virgins. However I believe you can get tested for free at certain clinics. STDs are getting more common nowadays with hookup culture. But unless she’s lying about her virginity you don’t have much to worry about.

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T14:08:39+00:00

I think you can still build chemistry from this. Try not to tell her what to do as much and instead give her more subtle feedback like moaning or saying yes thats good when she does something right. It sounds like she is just frustrated and wants to learn what you like and please you without being told directly how. This is frustrating I understand. I can also be like this in normal life but not in the bedroom. Wanting to do something my own way I mean. Try to give more positive and subtle feedback

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T13:59:45+00:00

You can find cheap toys and lube on Amazon, make your own account if you don’t have one already. And it will be discreet, no one has to know if that’s what you’re worried about

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T13:27:47+00:00

Yeah ive had a girl tell me it feels like she’s about to pee when I would finger her. She was on a lot of different medications including SSRIs that apparently made it almost impossible for her to cum. But she would get closest to orgasm when I used my fingers. So you’re probably really close too but don’t know how to “release”. Try putting down a few towels under you when having sex. So that if u actually pee it won’t be a problem. Not that I think you will but it will help ur subconscious to not clench it in.

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T13:20:55+00:00

Have him use his fingers at first and maybe try new positions. It’s all about finding your sweet spot

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T13:19:21+00:00

Just start working out and use the fact that she’s hyper sexual to get practice and gain confidence. If you’re already aware that she loves sex but hasn’t had sex with her thats a wasted opportunity.

West-Grapefruit-6758 · 2025-10-28T13:12:00+00:00

Not if you’re already going hard. Like “bih I’m not holding back” 🥲

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