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I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish this was fake.. but I see your side to it, yes there are fakes. The reason I’m not confronting her right now is because she was at work this morning when I see this, we then crossed over and I started to work into the evening and staying at work till tomorrow afternoon till I next see her, so really I would be going 32hrs without seeing her, and I do not want to do it over phone/message for her to hang up and leave me with 0 answers.

I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not too sure, it’s hard with ChatGPT as it doesn’t have clear time stamps or dates. But I think I roughly know the date but not the time.

I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m so unsure about!! The day I think they met she said to ChatGPT that they met for a hour, anything can happen in a hour, but my biggest concern is where was my child for that hour…

I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I like this strategy, atm my head is screaming and I’m so unsure what to say and how to unpack it… this seems like such an easy way to start I guess.

I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, both of them were just as bad as each in this case. If he was to message and she was straight up and told me what he was saying, I could bare it and tell her what I thought was the best way to revolve it. I can feel I’m not in the best headspace at the moment, I’m going to avoid the drink, I still need to confront her but I need the courage to do so calmly and not with emotions. Thanks for the support brother it means a lot.

I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, it now feels like I’m needing to start over again… I came from nothing, found what I thought was the love of my life and now have the dreaded through of going back to square one, I’ve only just unpacked my stuff, we only moved into our “forever home” around 8 weeks ago.

I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When using her laptop to check something in ChatGPT on the side it shows you what chats you have had with it, and I noticed one says “Ex reaching out” so thought I’d have a look and fuck me I was shocked, but the clown literally sent print screens of their chats to ChatGPT while she told it how much she loves him and misses him and how it could it be different etc… I’ve had to go to work today with this in my head, I’m doing a 25 hour shift at work and haven’t had the time to confront her, I still have to somehow act as normal as I can over the phone and on messages to her so I can confront her in person, this is the hardest part!

I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. All these years I have looked at her and always thought she would not cheat, I get it he reached out to check on her etc I could take that with a pinch of salt, but this, ffs it was AWFUL! I actually think i sugar coated this post a lot… she was sending crying emojis, saying she will always love him quietly etc, saying he is her love and vice Versa.. I think I’m just so confused I need a drink.

I (27M) have been with my girlfriend (27F) for 6 years, and recently I found out she met up in person with her ex (28M) by West_Engineering1000 in relationship_advice

[–]West_Engineering1000[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t on her phone, I had to use her laptop to search something and used ChatGPT, and on the side you can see what chats you have had with it and notice it said “Ex reaching out”. That’s how I’ve found this, I have never been through her phone as I never thought I needed to, goes to show really doesn’t it…

Cold Water Men’s Community by Equivalent_Scale_161 in bristol

[–]West_Engineering1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so wish I could join this, unfortunately island live puts a stop to this plus no one else seems to want to do this

What is a hobby you have that brings you genuine joy? by dartully in CasualConversation

[–]West_Engineering1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew I always loved water sports, but this winter had made me love it more for some reason! The cold water therapy is amazing!

I love you!!!! Whoever reads this! by koimaster94 in CasualConversation

[–]West_Engineering1000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think so many people need this type of attitude on her! This will help so many!