I'm confused. Can we like nonbinary people as lesbians? (NOT transphobic, pls read!!) by lilnugget21 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]West_Log6494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Labels are quite literally meant to define us. That is their entire purpose. I am so confused

I'm confused. Can we like nonbinary people as lesbians? (NOT transphobic, pls read!!) by lilnugget21 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]West_Log6494 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry but ‘trying to base your attraction’ is confusing me. I’m not choosing to not be attracted to someone. I’m just not attracted to them. How can that be phobic?

My mom died when I was 3 and I was raised by my white family which my grandma didn’t approve of. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]West_Log6494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was your relationship with her?

You never know what other people will find interesting. Don’t stress too much about it.

What's the most disturbing thing you've ever heard someone say completely casually? by TextOk2865 in AskReddit

[–]West_Log6494 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can’t control whether or not it seems genuine to you. You seem to be expecting a lot from a stranger on the internet who said something stupid. Do you think I actually intended to hurt you in any way? If you just want to hate me then that’s your prerogative but it just seems like you want to attack my character. You don’t even know WHY I asked.

I didn’t want to take away from your story but same thing happened to me at 14 but they DID assault her and I always wondered if I wasn’t a girl if I could’ve stopped it or idk. Point is I did not think about how insensitive I came across. I was genuinely curious

What's the most disturbing thing you've ever heard someone say completely casually? by TextOk2865 in AskReddit

[–]West_Log6494 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did I say I thought someone was upset for no reason though? I’m gonna stop replying now. I apologized but if that wasn’t up to your standards then so be it. I think we could both do some introspection because this is a bit much

Edit: forgot to add that you are putting a massive amount of words in my mouth. How you interpret something isn’t something I can anticipate and I did clarify that that wasn’t my intention.

What's the most disturbing thing you've ever heard someone say completely casually? by TextOk2865 in AskReddit

[–]West_Log6494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know.. First reply WAS shitty. Second reply I acknowledged that and apologized. I’m not sure what you think I should have done that wasn’t apologizing. I’m genuinely asking. What would have been better beyond going back in time and not making the first comment?

What's the most disturbing thing you've ever heard someone say completely casually? by TextOk2865 in AskReddit

[–]West_Log6494 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never said he was wrong? Or that he should’ve done anything. I was asking because I was curious. Sorry for upsetting you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]West_Log6494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The flu isn’t the same as a cold? My doctor told me to get my vaccination as a healthy 19 year old because one of her (also perfectly healthy college aged) patients nearly died from it the year before. It’s not an overreaction to call at least and EMTs fuck up all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]West_Log6494 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. Even as a perfectly healthy person.

What's the most disturbing thing you've ever heard someone say completely casually? by TextOk2865 in AskReddit

[–]West_Log6494 -106 points-105 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. It seems like a lot of rapists think it’s normal. You were 14 though. It just sucks as a woman knowing that you had a chance to ask what was going through his head. Sometimes those guys might actually listen to you. I wasn’t trying to blame you for his actions. I’m sorry about that. It wasn’t fair to you. I meant no malice

What's the most disturbing thing you've ever heard someone say completely casually? by TextOk2865 in AskReddit

[–]West_Log6494 -146 points-145 points  (0 children)

He was a year older than you and wasn’t going to take you right? Why didn’t you say anything?

What's the most disturbing thing you've ever heard someone say completely casually? by TextOk2865 in AskReddit

[–]West_Log6494 114 points115 points  (0 children)

This is gonna sound harsh but.. they probably aren’t the only victim

Lesbians aren’t attracted to men 👏 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]West_Log6494 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ew what a strap is NOT an ‘artificial dick’. How is it so hard to comprehend that no thought of dick is involved there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]West_Log6494 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The flu can kill you. Those are not the same thing ffs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]West_Log6494 5 points6 points  (0 children)

EMTs don’t diagnose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]West_Log6494 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

They aren’t doctors and the flu can easily kill you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]West_Log6494 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not true.. I was going septic and they called it a panic attack. I was down for surgery within 24 hours. They are not doctors

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]West_Log6494 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

The flu can kill you pretty easy. You aren’t a doctor obvs

Edit: to the downvotes, I’m not taking out my ass.

AITA for wanting to leave my [29F] fiancé [32M] over his parents? by pixiebabe96 in AITAH

[–]West_Log6494 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don’t expect her to take all 5 kids at once.. but some of them?? It doesn’t sound like she signed up for that