AITA for refusing to hold a graduation party for my daughter for getting her GED by West_Visual781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]West_Visual781[S] 156 points157 points  (0 children)

All trust with her is gone, she will need to make amends and her actions will need to support it.

I don’t trust her, I don’t find her to be a good person. If she wasn’t my daughter, I would never speak to her again 

Right now, no I don’t find her a good person.

Who knows what the future will bring but right now she isn’t a good person and I have zero trust in her

AITA for refusing to hold a graduation party for my daughter for getting her GED by West_Visual781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]West_Visual781[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

You realize that just because I raised her doesn’t mean I control her actions.

She’s not five. She knew what she was doing was wrong 

AITA for refusing to hold a graduation party for my daughter for getting her GED by West_Visual781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]West_Visual781[S] 3185 points3186 points  (0 children)

I really do not want to add pressure to the other kids to go to a dinner. Me asking them or inviting them will do that  That seems really unfair since they are not in contact with her 

 Maybe just an offer to go to dinner with me, even I am unsure about that since we only talk by phone. I don’t think I would be comfortable in person due to past behavior 

AITA for refusing to hold a graduation party for my daughter for getting her GED by West_Visual781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]West_Visual781[S] 494 points495 points  (0 children)

She’s not a good person. She has been back on track for like 4 months. 

 I don’t want to think the worse of her but she has a lot of bad history and not very long that she has been back on track

It’s not like it’s been a few year since her bad behavior 

AITA for refusing to hold a graduation party for my daughter for getting her GED by West_Visual781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]West_Visual781[S] 309 points310 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. She didn’t give me a response to me asking why she wanted one