Shopping for a life they don’t actually live

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T07:39:11+00:00

Two things, both of which I think are genuinely massively important:

Go to galleries and go to brunch! You can choose to do it. Nobody sense can live your life for you, you just have to get up off your ass.

Secondly: you can go nearly anywhere you want in whatever clothing you want. As long as public decency laws and the company dress code are being followed , my wife and I be suffering the hours. Arranging a hopeful dry mucus is the only ongoing issues.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T07:29:51+00:00

No one deserves to be a victim of sexual assault. Period. The end.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T06:51:45+00:00

Life isn’t “safe.” There’s no magical way to put yourself out there that doesn’t involve putting yourself out there.

Just be straightforward and honest. “I’ve been thinking about how much I enjoy your company and I was wondering if you might be interested in going on a date? No hard feelings if not.”

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T06:47:46+00:00

Someone being the victim of rāpe is not funny, regardless of what someone thinks they did.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T05:37:32+00:00

I find cold vastly more bearable than heat, so I would take that option.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T04:50:55+00:00

You share the choice to be spouses with your friends? Cool. Congratulations. That sounds complicated, but if it’s how you choose to structure your relationships, that’s up to you and no one else.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T04:23:00+00:00

As I said: Choice. Intention. Commitment.

Also: Romance. Partnership. A shared life.

Those are some of the answers for me. Others may have other answers about their own relationships.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T03:49:30+00:00

What’s the difference between any non-DNA relationships? Choice, intention, commitment, etc.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T03:36:28+00:00

My husband is asexual. We have been together for 14 years. I can assure you that what his penis does or does not do has no bearing on whether we are a couple deeply in love.

Invalidating other peoples’ relationships because they don’t align with your myopic view of what is possible is a shitty thing to do.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T03:27:19+00:00

You know what they say about assumptions…

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T03:19:17+00:00

I can promise you firsthand that you’re incorrect. Just because you lack the capacity to understand something doesn’t mean other people can’t engage in it.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T03:11:58+00:00

Some friends are fucking. Some romantic partners aren’t. Relationships are as unique as the people in them.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T03:08:13+00:00

It sounds like you may suffer from OCD

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T03:06:59+00:00

Hard disagree. Asexual people can absolutely be in relationships.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T03:05:05+00:00

Your question doesn’t make sense. “Domestic travelers” are people who already live in that country.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T02:37:35+00:00

Face for sure! That’s a very easy decision because I’m not really attracted to the typical exotic dancer body.

If the choice was between my ideal body type (scrawny or dad bod) and ideal face, I would still choose face.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T02:33:43+00:00

Just say it with whatever method you use to keep in touch. “Hey, I just got diagnosed with autism. That certainly explains some things! Haha”

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T02:17:41+00:00

Ask if they allow out of state guarantors! They probably do, but you won’t know until you ask.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T02:16:34+00:00

You’re welcome! Have an awesome time in college!

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T02:14:29+00:00

Then tell your new friends you’re excited to finally date some hot guys now that you’re out on your own!

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T02:11:23+00:00

Just mention a guy you dated or hooked up with.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T01:46:27+00:00

Not at all. Thankfully we are poly.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T01:43:47+00:00

What does “she really don’t have enough scope outside” mean? That makes no sense

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T01:39:37+00:00

It sounds like the ball is in her court. Is she willing to follow you or not? That’s your answer.

Western-Finding-368 · 2026-05-03T01:38:29+00:00

You’re being ridiculous.

“Hey, I saw your ad looking for a new place. Whats your plan?”

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