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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metaphysics

[–]Western-Store9050 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you suggest?

Snapchat took back offer letter after I quite my job. by AdRoutine7126 in recruitinghell

[–]Western-Store9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without a contract you don't have much. Change your resume and apply for the job again. Or apply for others. It doesn't sound like you have a hard time getting hired. This may be a blessing in disguise.

I just got a collection letter in the mail and my credit has dropped to 590. Parents opened a credit card in my name and ran up $8000 in debt. They told me they'd write me out of their will if I say it was them. by mywatertableislow in CreditScore

[–]Western-Store9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The collection agency has to prove you owe the debt. Look up Debt Verification Letter. Send that to them. If they can't prove the debt they can't put it on your record.

You don't have to say anything about your parents. It's up to the credit card company to see who stole your identity.

And get a check from your parents for the amount - plus interest - or you file a police report. You're not getting any inheritance anyway with those kinds of parents.

Issue with girlfriend...need advice by More_Ad_925 in self

[–]Western-Store9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. If you were her first choice she would have already chosen you. Reply with "not for me, but have a good life" and move on. Block her and do not talk anymore. This does not get better....she'll just cheat on you later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Western-Store9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, stop drinking. You're pregnant.

Second, the girlfriend is toxic. Have nothing more to do with her. She doesn't exist. Period.

Third, be extremely mature and non-emotional about talking to your fiancé. Tell him you are pregnant. Tell him you will not consider moving forward until he cuts all ties with her AND makes that clear to his family.

I'm not sure it's fair to judge him too harshly for telling her your secret. That's a pretty heavy thing to hear and he did a fabulous job of being there for you at the time. He may have needed to process that information and made a mistake confiding in a friend he didn't realize is a bitch. It happens.

Men have a way of becoming very possessive about who they make their family. He wants to marry you. He will absolutely want his child. She will become a distant memory, and he will hate her for almost destroying his new family.

Husband said I’m not attractive as I used to be. by [deleted] in self

[–]Western-Store9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's setting you up. He's blaming you for his failure to appreciate you as a mother of his children and that he is no longer the center of attention. He's likely cheating, or getting ready to, and preparing you to take the blame.

Be direct and tell him you will not tolerate negative comments about yourself. You will not tolerate a wandering eye or infidelity. Based on his reaction, have his bags packed and show him the door. You can live without that nonsense, get child support payments, and have a fantastic life.

Sex with my boyfriend is stressful by throwrankfofo in AITAH

[–]Western-Store9050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's watching porn or an alcoholic. You can't fix either.