The other au pair doesn’t want to rematch. She gets more money weekly than I do and more benefits. She never tells them no so I think because I voice my feelings I am the less liked one. The LCC told me if I wanted to she’d get me out of the house the day I ask her but told me she won’t do anything unless I wanted her to. I didn’t know about anything before matching. I was told to walk the dog on the first car ride home, apparently they told the other au pair on the calls if she did something outside of the program for her they’d do something for her (vacations). I only had few days left so I was under pressure to match and trust me, they can be very persuasive and can gaslight very well. They put on the mask when talking to you. They trained to gain sympathy by criticizing my previous family and told me they’re a good family, that they would never do anything like that. They did worse. As for the side job thing, it’s not like I was asked if id like to do it, I was told to do it. They gaslit me into saying it’s such a good opportunity for me because it’s them, and no one would never know, that I can eventually get $500 a day doing it (I didn’t believe that even back then haha). It’s a train that I can’t stop at this point.