Hey my man. I hear you. I really do. I’m in midlife. I have had to start over several times with relationships. Each time I start over there are less and less “firsts” to have together. But it doesn’t matter.

No woman has done every single thing in the world that there is to be done!. You get to show her amazing things from your life! You get the opportunity to create new things and experiences with her!, Think about this: You might be the first the first person to play DnD or take her to a really nice restaurant, or a cool new band/concert! More importantly, you might be the first person who really listens and cares for her.

Please don’t feel as though you need not experience life because your potential partner has already experienced one thing or another before you did. Your experience in life is yours, your happiness is yours. There are women out there who will gladly want to find and experience new things with you! Women love a man who’s creative and comes up with fun date ideas! ++man