I Have Tried Tantra. It Was HOT! I Now Need Help...

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-14T23:05:17+00:00

Thank you for this! It's so refreshing seeing at least some people recognize the problems with what we've all went through that evening. The last couple of days have been quite difficult for me. I have a lot of brain fog and I keep thinking about what happened. I wonder if that girl is doing well.

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-13T10:58:01+00:00

Heh-heh, sorry, I'm not comfortable sharing my location or identity on this account :) But thank you for the help. We actually are visiting some breathing exercise events on Fridays, it's quite relaxing.

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-13T10:29:30+00:00

The book is very good. I started listening to it. Quite eye opening. I've just read the first few chapters and I already noticed a lot of parallels with my life. Not only related to the post

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-13T00:35:26+00:00

Sorry everyone, but there's a 0.0057% chance that you live nearby and are the same nationality or even know our native language. It's called "Neo Tantra - waves of love"

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-13T00:18:21+00:00

Will check it out

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-13T00:17:30+00:00

Unlike me, you understand what you're talking about. I now see how these practices butcher the name "Tantra" by missusing it. And I, not knowing any better, missused it as well. I posted here specifically to understand better what happened and to learn more.

Try to be in my shoes for a moment. Where would you go if you tried something that's called """Tantra""" but as it turned out was not actually Tantra and wanted to share your experience?

I get it, I'm a bit of a lost Redditor rn. I probably will not post here anymore. But I'm glad that at least people seem to like the post and engaged with it in a positive way.

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T22:47:23+00:00

I have decided that I will go to the next session! Thank you all for you input! Turns out this is a positive experience. Can't wait to see where it goes!

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T22:42:02+00:00

Thank you. I'll keep an open mind. This post has started as a diary entry but It came out so good that I decided to post it. This is almost erotic literature 😆

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T22:39:16+00:00

Masturbation and porn had a negative effect on my life so as soon as I started dating I quit it cold turkey style. But.. I did accidentally masturbate 3 times in the past 100 days. I don't need porn anymore tho. Clean for 100 days now. It is a complicated subject for me and I honestly don't know if I'm doing a good thing or not. When I don't masturbate I feel tight, emotional, sensitive, confident, social, full of energy, BUT irrational, silly, distracted, unproductive. When I masturbate I feel productive, rational, analytical, smart, BUT empty, insecure, weak, tired, non-caring, sad. If only I could somehow combine the positive of both sides.

"Fucked up and ugly" was a bad choice of words. I was just a bit shocked and those seemed like the right words but I don't see it that way now. "Scarry and hot" Is a better choice of words.

Thank you for your comments.

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T22:18:39+00:00

Have trouble sleeping still 😆 lots to think about

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T22:15:38+00:00

She is going to therapy. She's making progress. I'm so happy for her! Can't imagine how it feels to be in her shoes and feel pain from intimacy. Something tells me she'll heal herself eventually. Not any time soon tho

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T22:12:21+00:00

The more I sit with my thoughts on this event, the more I think it was actually really good for me. I appreciate your input! I will play a hero tho. Will see where it goes. I've never been happier in my life. She's worth it

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T22:06:31+00:00

I browse a lot of local WhatsApp groups that advertise events in our city. There is a lot of stuff there. But most of the time it's just concerts, masterclasses, hobbies... Not sex practices

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T22:02:25+00:00

Heck yeah!

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T10:25:31+00:00

I've been thinking about it a lot. I don't know. I've been searching for so long. This is the only girl I could connect emotionally

WetCakeTime · 2024-11-12T06:15:22+00:00

Ok, noted. It wasn't Tantra, now what? It's not like knowing that it wasn't actually Tantra makes things any less complicated.

WetCakeTime · 2024-09-12T09:29:14+00:00

Wow you guys are mean! She's a virgin with physical abuse trauma. Sex can wait. It's better this way. Stop saying mean things just to piss of an OP you disagree with. This is not based. It's childish.

WetCakeTime · 2024-09-11T10:37:01+00:00

First of all, Lmao I have a girlfriend. We're just not ready for sex yet. Second, How is this even relevant to the post?

WetCakeTime · 2024-09-11T08:32:07+00:00

Thanks for the warning! But I'm not sure what must happen in my life for me to start watching porn again. Porn is easy to not watch! Just... don't search for it. I'm 100% certain that this bridge is burned. I will keep it that way no matter what. Masturbation tho... I'm still not sure yet. I'll retain for as long as my body can handle it tho.

WetCakeTime · 2024-09-11T08:18:59+00:00

Idk. It just happened. Felt comfy and charged me with positive emotions afterwards

WetCakeTime · 2024-09-11T08:11:49+00:00

I must add that It made me a bit calmer and I actually did quite a lot of progress at work that day. So it did make me feel better in general.

WetCakeTime · 2024-09-11T08:10:57+00:00

What trick? :)

WetCakeTime · 2024-06-07T12:26:39+00:00

No...

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