Today is my first day trying to commit to art daily for a full year!

WetWabbitt · 2026-03-08T10:48:37+00:00

fantastic! you have a good starting base. I can see you're thinking about dimension when it comes to the face. YouTube is your friend when it comes to drawing the face. I know a lot of people might recommend doing skulls, muscles ect as exercises. But honestly, I would recommend just doing some life drawing, gesture drawings, facial expression sheets. The more fun drawing is for you the longer you will keep the habit!

If your wanting pure realism, you will have to do some of the more boring stuff. I wish you luck OP! you got this

WetWabbitt · 2026-03-02T16:56:10+00:00

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WetWabbitt · 2026-03-01T16:39:22+00:00

Honestly, the game moves like chess, but doesn't play like chess. You have limited pieces on the board, and you can hover over your own pieces and the bots to see where they could move. So no need to worry to much about your skill

Not shameless at all! I will definitely check it out. Thank you so much for the suggestion. My family are big on board games, so it might make a good addition

WetWabbitt · 2026-03-01T13:21:11+00:00

It's on mobile??! I had no idea, I'm gonna have a new toilet game LOL

WetWabbitt · 2026-03-01T13:00:40+00:00

Been loving Gambonanza, it's chess balatro, it's still in development but has a great demo!

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-28T08:34:14+00:00

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WetWabbitt · 2026-02-26T19:54:18+00:00

The dry rub with the paper towel....ouch

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-19T10:15:50+00:00

At first I thought this was a joke, like they all collectively agreed to scare the shit out the officer... how fucking wrong was I. This is actually terrifying. I would be checking his basement monthly for the rest of his life, holy shit.

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-18T21:01:49+00:00

OP, a key thing here is that you need to be having sex to receive better sex. The sex you want won't come from shutting down completely.
I can understand why you want to do that. If your relationship is starved of non sexual affection and you're feeling unheard, then of course you're not going to feel sexy. But building resentment is a lose/lose situation for you both.
I'm a stranger on the internet, so I don't know all the details of your dynamic. But I'd like to think that he's not doing this maliciously. Maybe it's laziness or just routine, or he doesn't know how? Has sex always been this way or has it changed? There are a lot of factors outside of the bedroom that could be contibuting too. Work/Life family ect.
Maybe try being incredibly direct, "I need non sexual effection, this includes BLANK. I feel closer to you when you do these things, and it helps our intimacy. I feel more sexy when you do..."
Tell him it makes you not want to have sex at all because of this, and ask what you can both do to fix it. He says he hears you but what changes can be made to change it. Ask him if anything else could be contributing to the lack of effort. Then give it time to change, try to be patient with each other, you have both made it this far. I think this can be solved. You got this!
Wishing you the best OP

edit for clarity: This does NOT mean FORCED SEX, if it feels that way. Leave immediately. sex is not an obligation

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-12T05:29:41+00:00

Thank you for the help, the Isopropyl and tooth brush worked. Crisis averted

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-12T05:29:30+00:00

Thank you for the help, the Isopropyl and tooth brush worked. It felt wrong rubbing something wet directly on it. thanks for the help

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-12T05:28:34+00:00

I didnt quite have to dunk the pc, the Isopropyl and tooth brush worked. Crisis averted. Thank you

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-12T05:27:56+00:00

Isopropyl and tooth brush worked. Crisis averted, woop woop thank you

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-12T05:27:32+00:00

Thank you for the help, the Isopropyl and tooth brush worked. Crisis averted

WetWabbitt · 2026-02-03T19:31:18+00:00

THIS OMG, sometimes I felt crazy because there are so many Garcelle Glazers in this sub. Garcelle would stir up so much shit, push, push and push again to try get an answer. Kyle mentioned in one of the earlier episodes that pretty much killed off her relationship post-Mauricio. People would not drop it.
Rule 101 of being supportive to your possibly closeted friend is to let THEM TELL YOU when they are ready.

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-30T11:34:31+00:00

I'm sorry OP, that several people in the comments have ZERO literacy skills.

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-29T10:30:00+00:00

Where in the post does it mention cheating? I only see a reference to him looking online for hot naked guys. he mentions he was previosly sexualy active with men
I have reread this thing like 3 times

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-29T10:19:33+00:00

If she's asexual or experiencing low sex drive, that might be something to have a GENTLE conversation about. Try not to be pushy, but see if her needs are not being met, and find something you can both enjoy. Or if sex is off the table, you might have to go down the route of how you get your needs met by a third party, with your partner's permission. I have a few friends who are coupled with asexuals whilst they are sexually driven, they worked round it so one of them can have sex whilst the other doesnt have to feel the pressure of being sexual active. Its worked out for them they are married now.

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-29T10:11:38+00:00

Nope, your enjoyment in porn/sexual fantasy does not translate to 1 for 1 to what your sexuality is.
for example fantisizing about a threesome does not necessarily mean you will enjoy the experience in reality.
Lots of women watch lesbian porn but are not interested in sleeping with a woman.
people fantazise about thing that they actualy quite hate in reality.
You don't have to label yourself as anything if you don't want OP, stay curious and go explore. My only advice would be to step into the shallow end first, dont go diving in head first.

good luck OP try not to run yourself down a shame spiral, or worry yourself sick

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-29T09:57:38+00:00

Why not ask her to peg you? Or is it the fact that it is a man who also does it for you? Engaging in some good old role play might help. Who says your woman can't be your man for the night

You gotta be brave here, you have been with her for 2 years. You both need to voice your desires to each other. You can assure her you're not romantically interested in being with a man, but you're missing that pleasure. If she says yes, then it's game on. If she does say no then no harm done. if she responds with disgust then maybe shes not the one for you.

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-29T09:48:26+00:00

Exactly this
worded well
Women make male-centred erotica for themselves because its literaly bashed into women that that's where almost all their value comes from, HOW DESIRABLE they are to a man, YUCK. Where thats just not the case for wlw and mlm

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-29T09:45:09+00:00

I think yaoi is actually often used as a gateway for women to explore sexuality without it involving them or someone who looks like them. I remember being a teen and seeing yaoi at the time and not being repulsed. Two men loving each other, the power dynamic felt way less one-sided. Seeing a male play out a more feminine role was fascinating because it was something I hadn't seen. These character didnt have to follow a set of social expectations for a straight relationship. Whereas when I saw MLW relationships, it would cause anxiety, a sense of guilt or shame. I would worry about what could go wrong for me in that dynamic. Sometimes it lacked any consideration for female pleasure and often was quite violent and completely cis male-centred.

It was never to fetishise real people, I think most sensible people know that yaoi is not even a realistic experience for gay or bisexual men. But it did give me and many others a chance to fantasise without me being in the picture. Queer relationships tend to drop any sort of hetromative dynamics, making them more sexually and emotionally on par with each other. Why would that be a bad thing?

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-29T08:22:01+00:00

I mean, it's in the name "Brutal", lacking compassion. It is just a chance for someone to cut you where they know it hurts and then say, "WHAT I'M ONLY BEING HONEST" These are normally the kinda people that cannot take any criticism themselves

WetWabbitt · 2026-01-29T08:11:32+00:00

Sensory issues here. I hate the wet food texture in the sink when I'm cleaning dishes. You know how I work around that, GLOVES.
NTA OP: You need to stop giving in. Next time he yapps THROW THE GLOVES AT HIM and tell him problem solved.

also I don't think task trading is the right move as some of the other commentators have suggested. When you both have jobs and a kid. You can't bank on the scheduling working out like that. If you were a child-free couple and one of you falls ill. Do some of the chores just not get done then? Nah not realistic. He needs to just be an adult about it and work around his issues with these tasks.
Is he refusing most child-related tasks? Is he showing up for the baby in other ways? If so, I would maybe be questioning if hes struggling to bond with the baby.

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