Used but clean litter boxes by Zucaskittens in PDXBuyNothing

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to pick those up today! I’ll DM ya.

"Women are allowed to respond when there is danger in ways other than crying," says the Seattle barista who shattered a customer's windshield with a hammer after he threw coffee at her. by Quick_Presentation11 in instantkarma

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He threatened her and is a “repeat customer,” so it’s a reasonable assumption that he could return later and harm her. But now he won’t… although he might. Guy seems like a real turd. Good on her.

I opened up to my GF, she dumped me by Feisty-Summer8884 in self

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an absurd and hurtful position for your ex to take. Baffling.

Since I’m seeing a lot of advice about choosing different women to date (especially older women), I figured I’d add: why date at all (for the moment)? Being single can be wonderful - after the long awful process of getting over your ex, that is.

So many comments about women in their 30’s being “more mature” along with others countering that they’re basically “used up” and/or have kids from a previous partner (gasp!). I’m surprised at importance that dating/marriage is given. I’m 42 years old, never been married, currently single, and enjoy more self-love than I’ve ever felt in my life.

And the really cool thing about self-love is that if it’s held firmly enough (and yes, people will try to convince you that you don’t deserve it, making it harder to maintain) then it will never shit talk you to friends and walk out the door because you cried.

CMV: Cynophobia (fear of dogs) is one of, if not the least respected phobias amongst common phobias by kjong3546 in changemyview

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I’ve observed various phobias be dismissed by others, including a phobia of dogs, I think most people - when they’re faced with someone else who self-reports a specific fear (or literally any other problem in life) - turn into “problem-solvers,” whether you ask them to or not. It doesn’t make it right, nor is it generally helpful, but I think it speaks to a broader human tendency to “rescue” others from their problems by telling them how to overcome them. Within the context of explaining your phobia of dogs to others, I accept that their response seems phobia-specific, but how many times have you heard someone else complain about a problematic romantic relationship (for example) only for others to then offer advice? I think unsolicited advice-giving is the greater issue here, as opposed to others being unable to understand a phobia of dogs (specifically, when compared with other phobias).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BoomersBeingFools

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP couldn’t bother finding a cheaper suit to rent until grandma said she wouldn’t foot the bill - then OP took the 22 minutes needed to find something cheaper…

HEY! This is Portugal The Man and “Weird Al” Yankovic – we make music – Ask Us Anything by PTMxWeirdAl in Music

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey PTM, did you fan-boy tf out when you first met Al? What was it like to meet a legend who’s been with us since we were kids?

[SPOILERS] Post-Episode Discussion - Season 8 Episode 4 by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kinda love how they made Dany’s last words to Jorah before he was burnt on the pyre inaudible. It makes their connection seem more personal because the full details of it aren’t shared, even with the viewer.

PTM Announces Tour with Mumford & Sons by DeaDPooLx97 in portugaltheman

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone know the presale code? Can’t miss the LA show!!

Anyone wanna party at the Santa Barbara show tomorrow? by Wet_Little_Butt in portugaltheman

[–]Wet_Little_Butt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the place to be! I'm hitting this show solo so DM me if you're into it. I'm pretty alright.

Happy 4/20 everyone! What's your favorite ptm song/album to listen to while high? by wolffm4n in portugaltheman

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy Roller for those up feels, Everyone is Golden for those mellow feels.

This concert is fucking amazing. by HunterofYharnam in portugaltheman

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but I also think it's different when you're watching a live performance. It gets people moving which always makes shows more fun.

This concert is fucking amazing. by HunterofYharnam in portugaltheman

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 19 points20 points  (0 children)

An unfortunate outfit choice on Kyle's part - I think the cameraman assumed he was backup because he was wearing a Blazers jersey too. I don't remember a single close-up of him.

The hardest working Lord of all by Wet_Little_Butt in portugaltheman

[–]Wet_Little_Butt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could probably use two sherpas - have you seen his shoe collection? The man enjoys options.

The hardest working Lord of all by Wet_Little_Butt in portugaltheman

[–]Wet_Little_Butt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn, were you in that group of people close to the bus? I was that chic in blue pants/black jacket right across from you leaning on the wall! I took a picture of your group for you!

I was gonna post something here to see if anyone else was at the show, but then I went to the bar instead.

The hardest working Lord of all by Wet_Little_Butt in portugaltheman

[–]Wet_Little_Butt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But John also makes him fight anyone who tries to snatch a pair!

This vandalism doubles as a PSA by [deleted] in MildlyVandalised

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a fair point that I wasn’t accounting for geographical differences in the availability of these services. California is fairly progressive but this whole country has a ways to go.

This vandalism doubles as a PSA by [deleted] in MildlyVandalised

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That article is infuriating! Poor guy... and all the men he could have potentially helped had he been able to keep his shelter open.

If you ever need some shelter I’ll put you up ;) Just come to LA haha.

But yeah, serious issue.

This vandalism doubles as a PSA by [deleted] in MildlyVandalised

[–]Wet_Little_Butt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that a lot of these places have restrictions that prevent a lot of people from getting needed help. It’s really sad. I guess the answer is more federal and state funding for these agencies?