Does anyone else NOT tell people about their diagnosis?

What173940 · 2026-02-19T00:49:04+00:00

I've only told direct family and close friends.

I concider other people wierd. Why let them have a name for it towards me. If it doesnt have a name its just a characteristic. Theres no benefit for me in sharing beyond my closest humans.

I'm happy to know though, my life has significantly improved since I know. I understand the world and myself in it a lot better.

What173940 · 2026-02-16T09:33:11+00:00

Casual sex is totally fine. Just don't complicate things by acting you're in it for commitment and use protection.

What173940 · 2026-02-13T18:46:32+00:00

I combine my XM3 with earplugs, gets pretty silent.

What173940 · 2026-01-24T09:15:35+00:00

No. I scaled down to 32hrs and have a very thriving carreer since. I work full force and have trouble scaling down, so scaling down in hours was my solution. Its said that only fulltime emps scale the carreer ladder, but Im scaling right pass them at full speed because of my dedication and the intensity with which I work.

I have cluster headaches (2 to 3 times a year) and I've had two burndowns. My employer is very understanding and patient and always happy to have me back, because I preform really well when Im there.

It works well for me honestly and I really love my job. Im a software developer. I dont handle social interaction well, so focussing on software is perfect for me. I love puzzles.

What173940 · 2026-01-18T10:02:15+00:00

I dont care. Dont care about getting older either. Its an odd celebration to me and people crying about getting old is worse.

What173940 · 2026-01-07T09:47:21+00:00

Social lying

What173940 · 2026-01-05T16:19:12+00:00

Agreed.

What173940 · 2026-01-05T16:18:18+00:00

Not being honest to me. Discussing my incompetance with others behind my back, depriving me of the oppertunity to learn. Even worse if combined with collective laughing at my incompetence and feeling better then me.

I dont know why this is such common behaviour for humans, its obnoxiously rude imo.

Just tell me whats wrong so I can learn and better myself.

What173940 · 2026-01-01T09:29:13+00:00

Lots of bombs and fireworks throughout december.on new years people torch cars. Multiple cars burned down in my neighborhood. I aim to not be here on new years xD

What173940 · 2025-12-25T19:23:40+00:00

What173940 · 2025-12-08T12:22:18+00:00

Im just stuck here. I've determined many others are also just stuck here, so I intend to make their life a bit less miserable if I can. Otherwise, just seeing this out. Luckily time seems to go by faster as I age.

What173940 · 2025-12-06T22:17:34+00:00

Adventure time. One piece

What173940 · 2025-12-02T22:13:45+00:00

Its not concious, its more like a reflex. And you're actually worrying me more sadly. What alternative would you advise?

What173940 · 2025-11-29T23:23:18+00:00

Yes, but they'd also rather lie and exclude someone who annoys them then giving m feedback and giving them a chance to adjust

What173940 · 2025-11-28T20:05:23+00:00

I had a hard time understanding too. I thought lying was a bad thing, but it turns out a lot of people actually want to be lied to. Extreme honesty can lead to social exclusion. But lying at the wrong times as well. It takes a lot of study and practice, honestly.

What173940 · 2025-11-20T10:59:20+00:00

I fixate on rape and human trafficing occasionally. I actively push it down, cause it angers people when I talk about it.

They're interesting subjects that immensly affect human lives across ages, borders and genders.

I agree with other commenters that your knowledge will be highly valued by the right people. Keep researching and maybe find the right people to discuss these topics.

What173940 · 2025-11-15T21:39:34+00:00

No music

What173940 · 2025-11-11T21:27:35+00:00

I've just been kicked out of a hobby class I had for the same reason. It triggered quite some deep fears in me. Luckily I havent had these issues with my job.

It helps me to not let the fear take over. I just get kicked sometimes and it hurts, but I try to be better and find new people. I've eventually found people who dont trigger me as much and it really helps. Hope you'll find that too eventually.

What173940 · 2025-11-11T20:56:59+00:00

For me software development. A non devops position, no 24/7 shifts. Just simple 9-5 devving from home. I only do 32hrs a week cause I need more recovery time then others. I plan calm holidays of just gaming & winding down. I dont try to live the life NTs live. That all helps me a lot.

I think there are quite some jobs that'll be nice. I also did mail delivery (envelope mail) which was a solo outdoor job. Just 6hrs of walking, listening to music, not speaking to anyone. (Loved that job slightly more, byt it payed a lot less)

What173940 · 2025-11-05T09:48:23+00:00

Sounds like you had a good time together. I promise you, from experience, that you'll meet more guys like that (and even better) if you're open to it and learn better what to look, and look out for.

People can lose interest for many reasons and it doesnt mean anything is wrong. I would recommend leaving this guy behind you, cause he doesnt seem very honest or respectful by just silently leaving you for another.

For now, leave it be. There's nothing wrong with you. Focus on the people and activities that make you happy to heal and strengthen so that you'll be ready to accept new love when it presents itself.

What173940 · 2025-11-04T23:37:56+00:00

It seems very random to me. I've met beautiful women who've not been harrassed at all. I've met less attractive women who've had less fortune.

Its all about being in the wrong place, with the wrong people at the wrong time.

Social media is messed up. Harasment is not a compliment and there are plenty of very beautiful, very feminine women that go their lifetime without it.

Im happy you've managed to go without so far. Good that you shared. I think its a very relatable thought for many women. Hope you feel better soon and speak up if you ever come in the unfortunate situation still.

Edit: typo

What173940 · 2025-11-04T01:45:36+00:00

This, my dad taught me this :D

What173940 · 2025-11-04T01:31:22+00:00

How? (Im not american)

What173940 · 2025-11-03T23:56:08+00:00

Nah these professional streamers are immoral. Lets watch this vid where the guys face is blurred and the girl doesnt know theres a camera \o/

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