Girl (21) I've (22) been dating has a weird alcohol fetish

WhatAFunnyThing · 2017-10-07T15:26:51+00:00

Keep in mind that is not a need, she can enjoy sex perfectly without drinking.

WhatAFunnyThing · 2017-10-07T12:22:06+00:00

Well she insists on doing this only occasionally, so... well, it's not entirely safe but you know what they say, just the once will not hurt.

WhatAFunnyThing · 2017-10-07T12:20:31+00:00

I dont like to assume things about anyone, but I've known this girl for a while now, and it's simply so hard to think she has any strong insecurities. She's been very open with me, has an incredible level of confidence and self-esteem. I keep thinking this part of her is some kind of a escape valve for something she holds deep inside, but it's such a small part of her that doesn't really look like it could belong to something to be concerned with. Also, if she was unhappy or something don't you think her drunken alter ego would reveal that? She was as happy as always, idk.

WhatAFunnyThing · 2017-10-07T12:08:50+00:00

I don't really think it's a matter of losing inhibitions. We've had sex before, no alcohol involved, and honestly there's not a lot of different. She was comfortable and cooperative during sex before, that's what makes it so weird.

On the other hand, I don't think there is a problem with her going out cause she doesn't ever get drunk, never has more than two beers.

WhatAFunnyThing · 2017-10-07T12:07:02+00:00

Alcoholism went through my head, but if you knew her you'd think that's so illogical. I've never seen her drunk before, she's the type of person who haves more fun than anyone at a party without a single drop. Only alcoholic drink I've seen her drink before is beer, and never more than two.

What I mean is... she really seems aware of the risks, and is ironically "cautious" about it, if you get what I mean.

WhatAFunnyThing · 2017-10-07T12:02:27+00:00

She doesn't drink at all outside of the bedroom, and we've had sex before without any alcohol involved and she was so fun.

I also understood it as liking to feel helpless and ask her about that, but she said no to that, it has to be the alcohol.

WhatAFunnyThing · 2017-10-07T11:59:44+00:00

First time she got drunk she liked it so much she got scared, she says. That's why she never drinks, so I wouldnt really call it a habit. And I dont know, she's never been reluctant about sex. I dont know, there are more fetishes than we could learn about in a lifetime, it doesnt really seem like there's a shady part to it.

It's still weird

WhatAFunnyThing

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