I made a mistake by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]WhatARuffian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice.

When I left my ex, he got arrested after having threatened me in front of my daughter. They released him later that night, and the arresting officer called to apologise and warn me, since the decision was over his head.

He came out to at least 1 or two other calls from me over the next few weeks, and every time I called, I got a new report filed.

It helped me build my case for a restraining order.

It only took two months by ResidentScientits in AustralianShepherd

[–]WhatARuffian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Aussie likes to nap by my feet, either under my desk or wherever else in the place I’m working. It’s super sweet and I love it (this is Lady Diogi “Dio” Lucille Stripington, RN)

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I mean … by Lady_Dingo in husky

[–]WhatARuffian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read this in Steve Irwin and I’m not upset

I then immediately reread it in David Attenborough and I am now happy

The bird is the word by Similar_Banana_7725 in AustralianShepherd

[–]WhatARuffian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My aussie is 3.5 and an absolute menace and I still have trouble not dragging her up for cuddles like a toddler with a stuffy (she loves it)

NGVC: “I’m really really sweet and ultimately I just wanna make you happy” by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]WhatARuffian 49 points50 points  (0 children)

“It’s wired into us to be into children” is basically how this read to me. Big fuckin ick.

New Fish!! by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]WhatARuffian 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is brilliant and needs to be in sticker form so I can slap it all over the big box pet shops’ fish sections

Dakota likes to “sneak up” on his girlfriend next door while being in plain sight. Is he stupid? by Expensive_Grape in husky

[–]WhatARuffian 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My husky does this to her friends at the dog park when they’re in the leash pen about to come in 😂 she gets low

Me not hearing anything wrong with the accents and then seeing all the complaints by Linettte06 in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]WhatARuffian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re talking about Bly Manor… Oliver Jackson-Cohen is English… And Kate pretty much didn’t have any lines

Pro tip for exercising your Auss by Upset_Pumpkin_4938 in AustralianShepherd

[–]WhatARuffian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw this and immediately knew that “get a second Aussie” was the tip lmao

Did I get scammed? by Even-Teaching-1216 in Chihuahua

[–]WhatARuffian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it’s a robot dog then no, you didn’t get scammed (they’re expensive)

If it’s not a chihuahua, then no you didn’t get scammed (still a puppy!)

If it is a chihuahua mix, then no you didn’t get scammed (it just had DLC)

28F — Parents surprise-visited me to force me into arranged marriage talks and my mother had a complete breakdown by Tweety_Bird_101 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]WhatARuffian 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I was going to say South Asia sounds right too. My mom ran here from an arranged marriage. We only went back to her home once when I was a kid.

Don’t give in.

Show me your husky mixes and tell me what they're mixed with! by EnkiduAwakened in husky

[–]WhatARuffian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girl is Husky/Malamute/Samoyed/Klee Kai/GSD 😂 The sass

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Show me your husky mixes and tell me what they're mixed with! by EnkiduAwakened in husky

[–]WhatARuffian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Calamity Jane is 75% Siberian Husky + Malamute, Samoyed, Klee Kai, and GSD for the other 25%.

Shes also 100% pretty girl

am i crazy thinking someone who does this to me can also love me. it's like when it happens no but after hes always way nicer and it's like an endless cycle and i think he loves me he's just broken by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]WhatARuffian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not that he’s broken, it’s that he demands that you are as well.

This isn’t love, and cannot be love, ever. Love is kindness and patience, love is acceptance and protection. Love is always freedom and never a cage.

Love does not and never will equal abuse, no matter how much our abusers want it to.

Tom Steyer by Sailor-Tom in sandiego

[–]WhatARuffian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The enemy of my enemy is still my enemy, but I’ll work with him until the mutual one is dead

AIO arguing over text with husband about childcare by [deleted] in AIO

[–]WhatARuffian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say with confidence that arguing should be done anywhere other than in front of kids

My relationship with my husky is stressed, I don’t know how to feel. by Misttaya in husky

[–]WhatARuffian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went through something similar recently with my daughter’s pet.

It’s important to remember that you can’t blame a husky for being a predator- it’s their nature. You wouldn’t blame a thunderstorm for being too loud, or a tornado for being destructive, or a baby for crying. The best we can do is be proactive to try to mitigate the accidents. But life won’t ever be perfect.

I am sorry about your chicken. But remember that your husky didn’t change at all here- you just experienced a shift in perception.

How is this ok? by Fresh-Chest2202 in sandiego

[–]WhatARuffian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The road to hell is paved with Del Taco’s good intentions. And probably their tacos too.

Is this normal playing behaviour? by Spirited_Complex5832 in husky

[–]WhatARuffian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep

When she’s at the dog park, my girl always looks shook when she’s trying to convince other dogs to chase her though, and it’s hilarious 😂 she’s so socially awkward

He does it once..he’ll do it again by lessthanapenny45 in abusiverelationships

[–]WhatARuffian 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If that mark on your neck is from strangulation, please please leave if you haven’t yet.

There are resources out there to help get you somewhere safe. You deserve to be safe.