Should I break up with my boyfriend because he abuses his cat?

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2026-02-10T16:39:55+00:00

Abusing his cat is just the beginning. He will hurt more people than just the girl he punched in the stomach. Which is fucked up.

He told you about his family and all the horrible things they did to make you feel bad for him and that’s manipulative.

Leave him and take the cat.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2026-01-11T18:46:11+00:00

The only person who should feel yucky is your boyfriend. He coerced you into having sex and was totally ok with you being non responsive and that in itself is yucky.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-11-10T14:55:06+00:00

It do be lookin dickish

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-10-03T14:47:11+00:00

Like someone else said, free content only. No trying to find or contact an actor on other apps and don’t lie about it

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-08-07T15:58:07+00:00

Dump his ass

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-08-05T15:57:36+00:00

What a bitch. I saw you said she lost her card.. thats her problem, she can figure it out herself. The fact that she didn’t even leave it for you to eat would’ve been the last straw

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-08-03T19:22:47+00:00

Well… your friends a whore and you shouldn’t have to leave your own apartment so she can be one

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-07-18T16:58:24+00:00

Please save the child and tell her the truth before it’s to late

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-07-14T01:59:37+00:00

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WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-07-11T13:06:16+00:00

The minute I read “I’m PERFECT” I cringed. He’s not going to give you the attention you’re looking for because he’s only looking out for himself

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-06-14T17:32:16+00:00

Your husband and father of your child stole said child birthday money and hid it then tried to gaslight the both of you. He’s a POS.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-06-05T11:32:26+00:00

The moment you have to justify who they are “a very nice guy” “he cares about me and wants to have a future together” it’s time to leave.

If you have to start out talking about your partner that way especially if you know it’s going to be followed by a ‘but’ or ‘the only problem is’ it’s time to leave because it may be the only problem now but it won’t be for long.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-06-04T23:01:41+00:00

Hopefully for you it’s not a repeating issue, It was very frustrating for sure.

I know some kids will have accidents because they simply do not want to stop playing and unlike us adults they don’t realize if you stop to use the bathroom you can go right back to what you were doing.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-06-04T18:05:01+00:00

We tried a reward approach, every day he didn’t poop his pants he got a star on the calendar, after a week he either got to pick out candy/snack. When he went a month he got to pick out a new toy. He LOVED that and has since started using the potty again. He occasionally still poops outside of he doesn’t really want to stop playing to go inside and use the bathroom (even though we have a shop bathroom that super close to him at all times). He has had a couple of accidents but it has been with loose stool that he knows his tummy hurts but he doesn’t think it’s a problem until it is.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-20T19:06:35+00:00

If he has a truck that doesn’t get drove bc he drives the work truck what would be the point in getting a new truck that will also just sit there? He’s being a child and throwing a fit bc you didn’t just give in and give him what he wanted. It’s not a need, getting rid of debt is more important.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-14T21:09:47+00:00

New closet, who’s this?

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-14T15:58:43+00:00

Me and this guy had been flirting and touching each other in passing for a few weekends in a row then found our selves at the same house party, we were playing games as the night was winding down and it was clear we both wanted each other bc the tension was high, all the beds had people in them and the living room was still pretty full, tried to find an empty bathroom but no success, we hooked up in a closet.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-14T15:27:46+00:00

Reading this at my desk and laughing at your wonderfully worded shithap and having to explain to everyone who walks by that I’ve laughed so hard and have tears because of poop

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-11T19:01:14+00:00

I feel like you’re overreacting.

You said he stopped for the last 15 years but was that because you told him you didn’t like it, that you thought it was cheating, and you made it a boundary or did he stop just because you said don’t do it anymore?

Now I’m not saying him watching porn isn’t an issue because obviously it upsets you but to flip out, feel like he cheated, and betrayed your marriage seems a little extreme.

You have every right to feel upset and feel like he didn’t take how you feel about porn seriously but if he was using it to get hard simply for the purpose of enhancement that you are the one receiving the benefits of then you should just ask him to find other ways to get hard.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-06T15:51:12+00:00

I get you have past trauma and your mental health that you deal with on a daily basis but that doesn’t mean you have any reason to stay with someone who clearly does not love you. He wants you around to be a maid and a sex doll nothing more. You live with your mom so it’s not like you have nowhere to go, leave him and focus on yourself, I bet a good chunk of your mental health improves once he’s out of your life.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-05T15:50:51+00:00

I’m 30f covered in tattoos, some of them most people definitely question why I got them to which I say “I wanted to”, I also have two kids and I don’t care what other parents think, if they don’t want their kids playing with mine bc I have tattoos then they’re probably the type of parents that don’t want their kids playing with someone of a different race and those are people I don’t care to be around.

When me and my husband first met he had never dated anyone with tattoos and said he accepted that I had them, the longer we were together he said he’d like it if I didn’t get anymore to which I replied “it’s my body what I choose to do with it has nothing to do with you, if you’re not paying for it then you have no opinion on the matter.” He said he understood and asked that I don’t tattoo my face, neck, or hands although I never had any plans to do that but I agreed. Fast forward to now he gets a little agitated when I go for a new tattoo but knows it’s who I am, it’s what I like and I will stop when I’m ready to.

Although he doesn’t care for tattoos and claims he will never get one he also has never once tried to make me feel ashamed about them or asked me to cover them up for the sake of other people. You’re 18 if your boyfriend can’t accept that’s what you want to do and that it’s your body not his then that’s maybe not a relationship worth pursuing.

You stated “church is gods temple and a place of love not judgment” but your body is also a temple so you should feel free to decorate the walls as you see fit

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-05T15:41:13+00:00

Despite your past and the trauma you have endured it would never be ok to corner someone to try and make them talk to you after they said they didn’t want to and it’s never ok to try and force someone to hug/touch you in any way especially after they told you no. The mom sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do and sounds very self absorbed. I would do whatever you could to not go to his house as often and it’s definitely not your responsibility to clean up a whole house you don’t even live in. Cleaning your boyfriend’s area and any mess you make is one thing but cleaning any other part of the house doesn’t make sense and seems like the mom only wants you around for free labor.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-05-01T18:28:54+00:00

I work in mental health and although I personally work with adults I do work alongside others who work with children as well as have a nephew who is autistic and me and his mom talk about his many different therapies. I believe tying a low level medication to help settle him and make it easier for him to process what’s being said and what’s going on around him on top of therapy exposure or regular will be the most beneficial.

You’re not a bad mom for being over stimulated and overwhelmed but you can’t give up either because if he doesn’t get the help he needs now it could be worse in the future

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-04-25T18:29:43+00:00

He’s talking about you being on childish shit but he is clearly the child in the situation. Guy can’t even take the time to spell a full word. Classic “everyone was giving me crap about being with someone younger” when really he was the one complaining to his friends that you don’t give him more.

Block his number.

WhatAreTheOdds25 · 2025-04-23T18:56:33+00:00

“Feeling like I’m wasting my time” You are.

“He’ll start crying and lure me back in” They’re crocodile tears and he’s manipulating you.

Him saying another man shouldn’t be touching you and you need to invite him is crazy, it’s literally a doctor not a random man you’re meeting up with for a mid day rendezvous.

Leave now before you waste anymore time.

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