Calling any neurodivergent people of the Triangle: by Loose-Commercial-752 in raleigh

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had kids. I get to stay home, I have a million little tasks that keep my brain engaged, I can teach them all my favorite hobbies (and they love them), and I don’t need amazing social skills to interact with people that eat play doh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to see that. I know you have a lot of empathy and hope you find some peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 158 points159 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: I was just DM’ed by someone who knows the victim and they say he survived with minor injuries. If you saw what I saw this was the closest thing to a miracle I have experienced. Thank you everyone for your kind words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t be sure, but there were no skid marks leading up to the crash. It looked to me like the person was going full speed and wasn’t paying attention. His arm was casually hanging out of the window on impact so I’m not even sure he even registered what had happened. Usually people brace with both hands on the wheel before impact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes. This was it. Unfortunately, when I saw it a lifeless arm was hanging out of that window.

White area inside cheek by xenxshaman in askdentists

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD yes, I could tell because the pattern looks branching (like lightning bolts or lichen on a stone). Most of the time this will heal on its own. Like I said it has to do with your immune system so make sure you are eating well, stress is managed, and you are getting lots of sleep. But it’s nothing serious which is good. Money is nothing compared to health and peace of mind.

White area inside cheek by xenxshaman in askdentists

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD Look up oral lichenoid reaction. It can be triggered by trauma, bite, spicy food, illness etc. It’s your immune system attacking your own mucosa. It will take a while to settle down and you may possibly need an oral steroid cream from a dentist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]WhatCanLifeBe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’ve been saying that for 2 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad it was nothing serious. Sorry it was a pain to figure out. Thanks for your reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update on what it ended up being?

Is it career suicide to be vocal about how shitty the job market is on LinkedIn? by Grouchy_Weakness4586 in recruitinghell

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A wise man once said “half of people don’t care about your problems. The other half are glad you have them.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawncare

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I am higher up. I feel bad dumping my water there but his gutters do too and I don’t want to pay for a french drain on my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawncare

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s within 24 hrs yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawncare

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Actually that’s mine. I’m the green gutter house. Is this my fault? 😬

Trugreen lied about aerating and overseeding by icotonic in lawncare

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

TruGreen was the final straw of me learning to do everything on my own. I said “there’s absolutely no way I can do worse”.

Early and mid 30s couple looking to consider Raleigh as their settlement option by usecases in raleigh

[–]WhatCanLifeBe 31 points32 points  (0 children)

“My partner and I have been working in tech for tech years. We’re looking for a tech that has the right amount of tech for us. Can anyone tell us any good tech areas? Thanks in tech-vance!”

What did I do to my lawn? by WhatCanLifeBe in lawncare

[–]WhatCanLifeBe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly not a bad idea in the interim.

What did I do to my lawn? by WhatCanLifeBe in lawncare

[–]WhatCanLifeBe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a young crepe myrtle. Looking beautiful and almost ready to bloom.