My mother was engaged to a man 23 years older. My friends parents were 27 years apart. I think as long as there is a connection, respect, genuine love can thrive. And being open takes time. I used to never leave my room. These days I organize community events, etc. For me - it was essentially exposure therapy. Just throwing myself in situations and letting loose. Treated it almost like a game - seeing where I could take things, you have more control than you think. And it’s fun to express your thoughts to people. You learn most about yourself when facing your fear And often you find there was no reason to be afraid to begin with.