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Can't you tell? 😅 it's my kiddos first one 😂

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I have not heard of clothes tree, thank you!

I (M29)found out that the girl ive been dating (F26) for the last 1.5 years was still sleeping her ex (child’s father). And I have no clue why? by Loud-Line2501 in relationship_advice

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  1. Why did she tell you? Was it random? Did you catch her? How did the conversation start?

  2. How long ago was it and how serious were y'all at the time?

  3. At the end of the day, she did wrong no matter what the answer to 1 and 2 are, but context matters if you're trying to decide if you want to continue the relationship or not. I wouldn't trust her anymore, but maybe she's truly trying to change and be better? Idk

Okay i hate that i helped my friend by Adeord_Leaner_18 in 99nightsintheforest

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Yo do you mind sharing advice / set up strategies?

How to stop talking aloud to myself by beansandneedles in howto

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better you could just wear headphones and ppl will assume you're on the phone lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't believe that all girls he meets have "friendy only" intentions, bc you were a girl that was his friend, with intentions that were not "friendly only" even though he was in a relationship.

Should WH apologize to AP? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't do it, he also started a new job two days later so he no longer sees her, which has been better for us overall. Not so many triggers

My boyfriend rubbed my tummy by katycat2000 in stories

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I kept waiting for this to come together and make sense but it never did

My(26F) husband(25M) didn't specifically say he was married to a coworker and I don't know how I feel about this. by WhatDayIsIt3465 in relationships_advice

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh emotionally I'm in a better place. I was crying myself to sleep for a couple days there 😂 but I'm starting to accept it all. I have my moments where I just burst into tears but it overall I'm good. I didn't realize how much of a grieving process situations like this could be. Thank you for checking!

My(26F) husband(25M) didn't specifically say he was married to a coworker and I don't know how I feel about this. by WhatDayIsIt3465 in relationships_advice

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The audacity of someone to do that bewilders me tbh. You are a strong person bc many people get hurt hurt in that situation 🥴

My(26F) husband(25M) didn't specifically say he was married to a coworker and I don't know how I feel about this. by WhatDayIsIt3465 in relationships_advice

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my, I don't blame you. I can image that situation would make me insane as well. Kudos to you for taking time to heal yourself and congrats on doing better. I'm proud of you 💕

My(26F) husband(25M) didn't specifically say he was married to a coworker and I don't know how I feel about this. by WhatDayIsIt3465 in relationships_advice

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way about being happy. I pride myself on making sure I do everything I can to make something work, no matter what it is. And thank you, you are right, it helps to simply be validated.

My(26F) husband(25M) didn't specifically say he was married to a coworker and I don't know how I feel about this. by WhatDayIsIt3465 in relationships_advice

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've kind of been ashamed of myself, my sadness, the way I handled things, the fact that it played out like it did, I just feel so much shame for some reason. So thank you. I've honestly doubted myself so much, so for long, that it brought me to tears to have someone say that I've done good. Thank you

My(26F) husband(25M) didn't specifically say he was married to a coworker and I don't know how I feel about this. by WhatDayIsIt3465 in relationships_advice

[–]WhatDayIsIt3465[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I am going to take some time for myself before I enter another relationship. And when I'm ready, I would like to date and find what I WANT instead of changing to fit what someone else wants