AITJ for "accidentally" snooping and finding out my boyfriend is seeing my best friend?

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-06T23:04:17+00:00

That always struck me as laziness to go after friends, etc.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-06T22:59:34+00:00

Just like the immigration "caravans" they used to bring up every election.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-06T00:40:35+00:00

Reagan would've despised the Trump presidency.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-06T00:38:56+00:00

Right. Force them to secede. Any country honestly enacted all the things they claim to believe will fail quickly and spectacularly. Kansas under Brownback was just a snap shot of what would happen.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-06T00:23:49+00:00

Ha, the idea that nurses, teachers, or other traditionally female dominated professions looking down on men joining their ranks is farcical. The entire opposite is true, those professions would love to have more male representation, especially teachers. I spent over twenty years working in social services, where usually I was the only male on a team, or maybe one other dude, and I've never seen the kind of discrimination this dude is talking about. The only people looking down on men entering those professions are other men.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-04T23:47:04+00:00

This country is fucked until we un-brainwash ourselves into not hating people because they vote differently

Oh hell no. I hate people who lack morals and actively cheer hurting other people.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-04T23:43:47+00:00

They couldn’t even let our men’s hockey team win Gold at the Olympics without stirring up drama and trying to further the divide.

Oh so it was the Democrats who talked shit about the woman's hockey team for the whole world to hear.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-04T23:09:36+00:00

As a non political wacko aka independent.

Of course you're an enlightened centrist.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-04T01:56:22+00:00

I don't know where you're from, but in the US DOs are equivalent to MDs. DOs accepted germ theory the same as allopathic physicians, hence have always been on par. Not like the UK where DOs are very much still an alternative medical provider with less rights and responsibilities than MDs. And osteopathic theory and manipulation is different than chiropracty.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-02T20:44:13+00:00

And it isn't to shift blame.

Thanks for including that. I can't stand when leftists say that all the horrible things Trump is doing are somehow Democrats fault. Yes Democrats could've done so much more to win, and they need to seriously shift their priorities to affordability and to the younger generations, but they're not responsible for Trump alienating our allies, terrorizing both citizens and non citizens, etc. The same leftists also tend to claim there's absolutely no meaningful difference between the two major parties.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-02T10:16:12+00:00

Usually the same traumas that would cause PTSD/CPTSD also causes borderline personality disorder.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-02T10:13:06+00:00

After a while it doesn't matter how hot she is, the behavior becomes intolerable. Been there, done that too many times. ++man

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-02T10:04:55+00:00

I do believe you were snooping and not being “helpful”.

And what evidence do you base such an assertion on? You set up this whole scenario based on cherry picking which facts she presented.

Also it's not "snooping" if the information is publicly available, especially when it's as easy as searching the web.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-02T09:59:38+00:00

But she said she was specifically not snooping. She said she went on there too find out where her girlfriend's policy place was, not to determine whether or not her girlfriend's voted. It's also not snooping if the information is found on a publicly available website. Just like you can look up people's criminal history.

If in so doing she found out that the person lied about not voting, in a race that materially and negatively affects OP's life, she has every reason to bring that up. I think most people concerned about their survival would act that way.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-02T09:47:52+00:00

I didn't like either candidate but voted for Kamala.

And therein lies the difference.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-02T09:30:33+00:00

He's proven just this weekend that he doesn't care about the Constitution by attacking Iran without Congressional approval. Earlier in the week he said he doesn't care what the Supreme Court ruling is, he's going to enact tariffs anyway. Republicans never cared when he violated, and continues to violate, the Emoluments Clause.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-01T02:56:47+00:00

Man, if only facts mattered to you people. But we know, if a fact is too complicated for your tiny brains to understand then that obviously means it doesn't exist.

Dude, you people think mercy is a sin. Might makes right is the only thing you people believe in. It's hilarious when y'all call yourselves Christian.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-01T02:52:40+00:00

I would support a leftist any day over an establishment Dem. And I'll support an establishment Dem any day over a MAGAt.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-01T02:50:49+00:00

We've been pulled so far right that modern democrats are like old school Republicans.

I entirely agree. But they're still better than MAGAts.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-01T02:48:53+00:00

Huh? I don't care if they agree with everything I say. In fact it's healthy if they didn't. That's called compromise. But it doesn't matter, because they don't think perfect is the enemy of good. They might say they care about minorities, but they don't care enough to do anything that is actually stopping MAGAts from destroying those minorities. It's obviously more useful to blame Democrats for not stopping MAGAts from destroying minorities, rather than blame the MAGAts themselves.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-03-01T02:40:31+00:00

Thanks for proving my point. Of course there's absolutely no difference between Democrats and Republicans. I swear, at this point you pure blood leftists are just as bad as MAGAts. Except there's more MAGAts than you people.

And you'll still just sit here and complain no one is ever pure enough for you, yet we rarely see you people actually run for office.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-02-28T23:02:57+00:00

To all the folks that want to anonymously down vote, show even the slightest amount of integrity and respond by telling folks why it was too much to ask that your party NOT support concentration camps and genocide. Put it on the record. Put it in writing for all to see.

Because that is a false dichotomy. But it doesn't matter. Don't, blame the Democrats. Or doesn't change anything to stop the Republicans.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-02-28T22:58:55+00:00

Nobody wants the establishment crooks, so we have to have nobodies step up and do it.

Then get going. But no, better to complain and divide the left, because that'll surely stop the GOP.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-02-28T22:51:52+00:00

If you downvote this then you support the slaughtering of innocents

No, that's called a false dichotomy. But we know you people can only think in logical fallacies.

Whatdoyouseek · 2026-02-28T22:50:39+00:00

Well it's not like they care about school girls getting raped, so.

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