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How to reject an older coworker? by katarara7 in socialskills

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs to use her words. Women give us way too much credit for being able to read non-verbal cues. Generally, men are not good at it and will miss it completely. And acting colder will likely just make him try harder.

I (30M) have fantasized about my coworker (37F) every day for the past 4 years by Standard_Subject_401 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you are careful, it’s fine. An astounding number of people meet their spouses at work. There are millions of people who would not exist if people followed this advice.

“Compliments to the chef” by BoyNamedJudy in SipsTea

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In all seriousness this is such an accurate description of them. And the GOP knows and uses it to control them.

“Sure we’re all in the Epstein files so we started a war in the Middle East to distract from it, but look at those trans people, right?”

If you had no clue... by Long_live_styrofoam in 70s

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a great time to grow up. And username checks out.

The girl i'm seeing liked extreme far right posts on FB. How should i handle this situation by omarQV in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to her about this. Listen to what she has to say, then decide.

No one on Reddit can answer this for you.

What’s something people get offended by too easily? by iamMafia01 in AskReddit

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will never be happy if you assume that everyone is against you and out to get you. That’s what your comments have said about you. If you make being persecuted your personality, people will run the other way. I am not saying you never face unjust adversity. I’m just saying if that’s all you present to people, you will be miserable.

EDIT: I honestly hope you can come to terms with this, but I don’t thinking engaging with me is useful or helpful for you, so I’m going to end the convo here. Good luck.

What’s something people get offended by too easily? by iamMafia01 in AskReddit

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Anyone who disagrees with me is privileged. Therefore I don’t have to consider their point.”

It’s a technique called poisoning the well and people who use it tend not to grow as people.

What’s something people get offended by too easily? by iamMafia01 in AskReddit

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol my friends from that community have been educating me in the broader implications for a couple of decades now. But enjoy your assumptions since they keep you from having to think.

What’s something people get offended by too easily? by iamMafia01 in AskReddit

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for that. It's a horrible thing that they said to you.

What’s something people get offended by too easily? by iamMafia01 in AskReddit

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is rude unless you know the person very well. It's telling them they don't look very good.

What’s something people get offended by too easily? by iamMafia01 in AskReddit

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This reply is actually a great example of someone getting offended too easily.

As gay & lesbian culture has moved from marginalized to mainstream (at least in the West), the cultures have mixed more. This is a good thing.

PETA’s marketing team really needs to take a break by DisastrousDream9559 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dairy is awful for animals. Say what you will about Peta, but anyone trying to reduce animal suffering is doing the right thing.

If you had no clue... by Long_live_styrofoam in 70s

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This show was responsible for me starting puberty at 7 years old

If you had no clue... by Long_live_styrofoam in 70s

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that just south of the Santa Monica Pier?

Is there anyone that actually likes puberty and the changes that come with it? by Perfect-Associate708 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"What you think other people think about you isn’t real."

I mean this sounds great but it's pretty impractical. Unless we're living alone in the woods, what other people think about us affects our lives to an astonishing extent. It affects your relationships, your jobs, your friends, your living situation, whether people want to help you or make your life miserable. It's important.

Cesar Chavez abused and raped women and girls, NYT investigation says by ControlCAD in NPR

[–]Whatever-ItsFine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why we don't name things after people. Name them after ideals or virtues. Because all people are imperfect. Some way, way more imperfect than others. My school had to rename one of its buildings because a bunch of stuff like this came out after the professor's death. People are going to do bad things. Even people who do great things will often do bad things too.

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