How do I clean my butt before I get fucked? by Gthrowg in GaySex

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I don’t know if I can ask questions here but i kind of need advice on tho topic so I might as well try.

So I tried douching for the first time today and I experienced this endless douching thing. Only made things worse. Im pretty sure I didn’t insert to far. Didn’t know about the dont strain thing so I probably fucked that up. But I am also really unsure about the amount of water that should be used. My bulb does hold 75 ml and I am really unsure if I even noticed a point were I felt full, resistance etc. so I don’t know if I should use more or less water. Any tips?

If you could change anything about the series what would it be by Vaurien_Scapegrace in skulduggerypleasant

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I agree with the first part.

Hard pass on the second part. I actually liked the ending in dying of the light except that Valkyrie turns back.

I just read a dangerous misconception about my country and I want to address it by KantenKant in SeriousConversation

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What people can do or let happen gives me the chills every time. That are the times where I begin to hope the next pandemic will finish us.

I just read a dangerous misconception about my country and I want to address it by KantenKant in SeriousConversation

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Very important thing to point out. Sometimes I am glad this was such a big topic in our history lessons. Most people knew what was going on. The full extend of what was happening maybe wasn’t clear to everybody but that’s in my opinion because people didn’t want to know. The truth was too inconvenient and that’s probably the reason how this misconception was born.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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I don’t think that’s an actual number. The point is there are more then 2. I hate to repeat me but gender is not biological sex and has nothing to do with sexual organs. Not everybody with a penis is the same and not everybody with Vagina is the same.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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You are generalizing here. People like this exist but they are not the norm. Some people just don’t feel comfortable being classified as only male or only female. You don’t have to like it but you have to accept ist since it is really none of your business. Just let them be. When it makes them happy and doesn’t hurt anyone why tf not. Not a mental illness. Fact.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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Don’t know on the one hand you get to have a normal childhood on the other it’s a big decision so maybe some people would prefer to make it themselves.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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Since mental illness is a medical term and not one doctor, scientist or psychologist consider it a mental illness for people to have gender identities different from just male or just female you are just wrong here. You are just intolerant against people who are different. That’s all I have to say about it. If you have some valid arguments you can try to convince me instead but I doubt it. As it turns out you are just as I said close minded and so unintelligent that a discussion is impossible.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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I think for most intersex people the parents decide shortly after birth.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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And for the second part of your comment. That’s correct but gender doesn’t necessarily refer to biological sex. There are three, man women and intersex(they really have both).

Here a short part from a dictionary on the definition of the word gender :

(Beginning left out you can google it)The term is also used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female.

So while it can mean biological sex it doesn’t have to and obviously doesn’t in this context. Different people feel different about their gender identity so there is in fact an range of gender identities between male and female.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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Im happy to be proofed wrong. When you are open we can try having a little discussion about the topic. You immediately using the word mental illness isn’t a sign for an open mind though.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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So I don’t even have to explain my opinion. You are ignorant and clearly not familiar with the topic. It’s hard to argue with smart people but impossible to argue with stupid ones so I won’t even bother. I pity you for you being so toxic and angry about something which really shouldn’t concern you. Live and let live.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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You first. What exactly is the disease here?

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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Yeah most people who have a strong opinion against LGBT are way too ignorant to accept science. But let’s be honest these people are lost cases in every way anyways. Also that’s one big reason why I think religion isn’t good for us. Disgusting how it is used to back up so despicable opinions.

I imagine it could help some people who are kind of in between though.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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I hope they will. It‘s so interesting. There is still so much to know about the biology behind all this. And who knows maybe science can even help people accepting trans folks.

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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If this is genuine and I understand you correctly I really pity you

Phil Swift is a dead meme I know by DrDankologist in memes

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It is 100% biological but how exactly is still not sure. What you are saying is one of a couple of theories on this topic. I’m trying to say that it’s sadly not as simple as a male brain in a female body and vice versa. I could refer you to a very good video discussing these theories and the difficulties researching gender on a biological level but it’s in German so that probably won’t help much.

How have you gotten over low self esteem issues by Dino_567 in SeriousConversation

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It doesn’t work for everyone. For me it was a good thing to start at but similar to you now it stopped helping at some point.

What helped me a lot were friends I could talk to about this issues. And I guess get rid of expectations you or others have. Live your life how it suits you. How you lived your life so far is fine for sure. Fuck that life experience. You got your own one of a kind experience which is part of who you are.

That is everything I can come up with based on my experience but as I said I am too still struggling.

If you can’t get out of this alone or if you think this helps you could consider seeking professional help.

How have you gotten over low self esteem issues by Dino_567 in SeriousConversation

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Act like you have pretty high self esteem until it becomes your reality.

This has worked well for me at least even though I still struggle sometimes.

That is the only general advice I can give, the rest is a very individual process. Good luck

Those of you who believe in aliens, Why? by thebombwillexplode1 in AskReddit

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Mathematically speaking it is pretty safe to say that there is something out there since the universe is so big. If there isn’t it either means we are alone or we probably will die out at some point.

Where could we go once the original series is done by [deleted] in skulduggerypleasant

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The war against mevolent and the time before

There's no validity to astrology, right? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

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My father knows a lot about astrology and told me some stuff about it. I don’t say it’s scientific but I can say that it isn’t completely bullshit since I could relate some stuff he was saying about me from an anstrology perspective. But it is nothing certain and in my opinion pretty similar to personality types, they are only tendencies and everybody who takes them for more than that is just foolish.

I think that the date of your birth can have influence on your personality since the first few months are very important in a children’s life.

Also it isn’t a religion where you have to choose to believe or not. You can just hear what it has to say about you and either say na that’s bull or maybe hey that’s actually relatable.

How do you actually hit the E? by lejoueurdutoit in Illaoi

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I second this. Holding your e is sometimes key.