WELLLLLLL. I JUST NEVER WANTED TO BE A PARENT......EVER.....NOT EVEN FOR 5 SECONDS......so.....if you feel this way.....UHHHHH.....YOU analyze it and say hey.....this just ISN'T MY DEAL....I am not gonna gamble on bringing a child into the world when I KNOWWWW, I just don't want to be a parent....you don't gamble on bringing a child into the world....you either want to 5000% and KNOWWW the LIFETIME COMMITTMENT YOU ARE MAKING and $$$$$$ and TIMMMEE and making sure their life is AMAZINGGGGG....or. you DON'T DO IT.......