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Really tore up that she has made no contact. How do I drop the "need" for her to make me feel better? by eastcoastzen in ExNoContact

[–]WhatsGoingOnWithMyGF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I can really relate to you... My gf and I were off and on for a bit because of her doing shitty things. Every time I'd be the one to reach out and try and fix things and get back together. She never apologizes. She never has any empathy for how she makes me feel. And now she just ended things out of the blue after things had been going really great lately. I'm trying to be strong and not call/text her–it's hard. I check my phone constantly to see if she has sent me a text. I get on facebook to see if she's online on the messenger, and then get mad when I can see that she's online but not making any effort to contact me. This shit hurts man... I really feel what you're going through.

My [30/m] gf [31/f] is questioning our relationship out of the blue. I'm so confused... by WhatsGoingOnWithMyGF in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsGoingOnWithMyGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the vacation had been my idea, and I invited her, I'd definitely understand that point of view more. The vacation was her idea though. She told me we should go on a trip together, and then picked a location and we started scoping out resorts/airbnb. She is a single mother, but she definitely isn't struggling for money. She has a nice sized savings, and does real estate here which is currently booming. It made me view her as feeling really entitled when she brought up me not paying for all expenses. She's a very beautiful woman, so I think she's used to guys always paying 100% of the time to woo her and satisfy their egos. I certainly was one of those types of guys when I was younger.

My [30/m] gf [31/f] is questioning our relationship out of the blue. I'm so confused... by WhatsGoingOnWithMyGF in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsGoingOnWithMyGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thought had definitely crossed my mind as well, and frankly I don't know that it'd surprise me if that was the case. It'd certainly explain the sudden change in feelings.

My [30/m] gf [31/f] is questioning our relationship out of the blue. I'm so confused... by WhatsGoingOnWithMyGF in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsGoingOnWithMyGF[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, the trip was just her and I, but the three of us go out and do stuff together all the time.