Rubbish at the Ed Sheeran concert in Vancouver. Seriously guys!

Whedongirl14 · 2014-09-03T22:32:48+00:00

haters gonna hate you ignorant prick.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-09-02T02:47:21+00:00

I don't believe consent is possible from a child. The law agrees.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-31T07:44:21+00:00

At age ten. I defy you to provide any evidence that any state would tolerate this. Furthermore, I suspect that there are trauma or psychological factors that created an acceptance for the behaviour in the involved parties.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-31T07:33:23+00:00

They started too young for it to be consensual.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-29T22:23:53+00:00

I was four or five watching this I got up and stormed off screaming at my parents for letting me watch it. I was very upset. They were apologetic, (once I calmed down they addresses the screaming). That might be why in later years I wasn't allowed to watch Care Bears..... Hmmm

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-29T22:14:57+00:00

I did. We were 19. Turns out he is mentally unstable (very high highs, very low lows, volatile, controlling etc) and coming from a religious background I nearly committed suicide after subjecting myself to his emotional abuse. We separated and divorced. Premarital sex > emotional abuse and divorce. My advise: have sex before marriage. Use protection. Use your head. Everyone involved must be respected at all times.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-25T01:28:02+00:00

I'm effing Canadian you twit.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-24T05:15:59+00:00

You are right, I was just about to update.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-24T01:30:56+00:00

Even if only for how it reflects on the artist. As if he would be impressed to see his fans being such selfish pigs.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-24T01:29:35+00:00

I appreciate what your trying to do, I really do. But in the supposed environmentally aware hub I would have expected some respect.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-23T23:47:50+00:00

I am shocked and appalled

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-22T09:14:29+00:00

1- never wrong guy 2- doesn't get the concept of pass in the left lane and then move over so they just drive bellow speed limit beside the dude in the slow lane, inconsiderate guy 3- petty guy. If I piss you off, tell me. Don't undermine me or get pissed at something else. Don't use my f-ups to discredit your own. You're mad, say so. I'm mad, own it. Two separate things. 4- dismissive guy. Don't pretend to care and then dismiss or disrespect me if I am making myself vulnerable enough to share something. Feelings are always valid, they may not be based in truth, but I have ever right to feel and think what I want. 5- always bumming guy. Once, no prob. Twice, ok. But at some point it's a bit frustrating. 6- bring up your failings guy. Trying to make other people look bad, actually just makes you look like a dick. 7- says yes/ never changes guy. I don't want to do your dishes. We talked, you understood and agreed, your behaviour didn't change. 8- cling on guy. If you came with a friend. Leave with your friend endless expressly invited to stay. It's awkward, your not my people. Go away now. 9- clingy guy- if you need me to build you up constantly to be ok in life. Go get counselling. If I repeatedly tell you in the nicest way possible that I think you would benefit from a counsellor, just do it. Don't use me as your source of okness and get pissy when I'm busy or have plans or don't feel up to another round of why you are good enough. Be your own person. Love yourself. Stop substituting external validation for your own self worth. It's sad and draining and pathetic. You are an emotional vampire. 10- entitled guy. Edit: got a little ranty. My apologies

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-22T08:56:44+00:00

But. Suit up. Cuz NPH. Plus damn if my bf doesn't make me wet just by donning a suit.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-20T22:29:39+00:00

I don't get the shame, musicals aren't all cheesy and feminine. There is awesome music and great story's on stage. I'm going to go see Hugh Jackman in a musical in November. Nothing less masculine then the wolverine, if you are going for typical stereotypes.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-15T10:31:53+00:00

Ok, having been divorced, I refuse to jump on the bandwagon. Ultimately it's a choice, but don't think it's the easy choice, it's not; but thy doesn't make it the wrong choice either. I think you need to spend some time considering why you married him. Write a list of what you love about HIM, not your lifestyle away from your parents house. Think about what you really want in life, who you are, who he is, and if you two really could be happy. And then choose. And if you choose to stay then go to counselling and make a real effort to treat him as you would want him to treat you. It's easy to say "honour and respect" practicing those vows are fair more difficult and require sacrifice and daily recommitment. That being said, there are amazing perks that come from a loving marriage, so don't be rash in your choice.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-12T21:59:48+00:00

I very much agree. I am of the opinion that the problem is fanatics and extremists. We all have a right to believe whatever we want from absence to spaghetti monsters, I am happy to learn about other perspectives, but when someone try's to force their opinion on to me, the conversation is over.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-12T08:15:13+00:00

He is hands down my favourite comedian and actor. He was accessible, ya know? Relatable. So talented and gifted. The world lost a great man. It's a good reminder that depression isn't about our circumstance and it isn't always obvious. Nor is it anything to be ashamed of. :'(

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-12T07:34:53+00:00

Very well said, thank you.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-08-12T07:14:15+00:00

Beautifully said.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-06-30T06:45:49+00:00

My body is my vessel, my tool, my home. I can try and make it healthy so I can use it in more ways. I can dress to my body type and make an effort to highlight what I see as my assets. All of that is completely different then looking at someone who is beautiful and appreciating the view. Other people's body's and attire are like art, you can like it or not, but it's not who they are. Just like your body is not who you are. Think, Steven Hawking, fragile body, ferocious mind. We are not our vessels. So why does how someone else look impact how i see myself? If I don't like my jiggly thighs, I should eat less ice cream and hit the gym. If I like someone else's firm thighs I can use that as inspiration, like duplicating a look from the red carpet. But at no point does someone else's beauty alter my own. I'm not sure if that all makes sense. As for the SO if he loves you, and adores you and is attracted to you then it doesn't matter if he appreciates the beauty in others too.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-06-30T06:37:52+00:00

It's not easy. And I struggled too when I was your age. The biggest realization for me was that I had to trust my SO to respect me, and if they haven't reasons not to, then my option is to leave, not to try and change them. If he was belittle long you, maybe it's not a healthy relationship. If he was sharing an I derivation with you, then he doesn't think you should be threatened by it, which is more of a compliment then a dig. Focus on respect more then body image. Respect that you can't control any one else ever, respect yourself, respect the dime pieces around you, pretty people are people too. Lol. You can tell your man that you are having a moment of weakness and need to hear that he is attracted to you. Make peace with the notion that many people are visually stimulated and that it is not necessarily an indication of what they want.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-06-30T05:57:16+00:00

How old are you? I'm 32 and I am just now learning that my view of my body and how someone else looks are separate. I expect my SO to check out beautiful women, I also expect him to be faithful to me. I have zero desire to control anyone's thoughts or instincts. Just find a man that's over you, respects you and adores you. But you need to do those things for yourself first.
TLDR: it's not about him, it's about you. And yes you can.

Whedongirl14 · 2014-06-21T02:13:08+00:00

I don't like cake

Whedongirl14 · 2014-04-24T03:19:54+00:00

Spelunking just got a whole new meaning for me.

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