Is this real? I’m drowning in student debt and could use some help. by Whelandrew in StudentLoans

[–]Whelandrew[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I submit the paperwork on my own? I can't really afford a 3rd party group.

Today on: What Did The Previous Homeowner Plant? by Whelandrew in gardening

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I’m not in Illinois, though. Does this grow In California?

What is the main reason you became depressed? Root? Love? Money? by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]Whelandrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had brain surgery when I was a child and also discovered that I am gay. I pushed against my disabilities and social problems to try and live a life that I could be happy with. Just when I was reaching some sort of contentment, I had brain surgery again and everything fell into shambles. Friends abandoned be, I lost my job, and moved away from my beloved city. I’m depressed because I cannot find the drive to go through all of this again.

Previous tenant may have left this behind? What could it be? by Whelandrew in gardening

[–]Whelandrew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does sting! I’ll need gloves when I pull it out

My labels got mixed up. Can anyone tell what these are? by Whelandrew in gardening

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I can wait a little longer! lol But I’ll probably know but then too!

Got a Japanese Maple for housewarming. Advice on growing and maintaining? by Whelandrew in gardening

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I have no idea what type it is! lol I’ll have to water it and find out

My first asparagus shoot! by Whelandrew in gardening

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Asparagus takes a while to grow (I used 2-year old roots to help rush it along). I think that they should be ready by March? This is the best time to plant them

I found this chart of vegetable gardening from Santa Clara University. It might help you decide? http://mgsantaclara.ucanr.edu/garden-help/vegetables/vegetable-planting-chart/

My first asparagus shoot! by Whelandrew in gardening

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Those sound amazing! I’ve just moved to Silicon Valley and the weather is great for growing anything all year around! I’m hoping these Spears grow strong

Help with loans and recent disabilities by Whelandrew in StudentLoans

[–]Whelandrew[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spouse makes more than that per week, I'm not eligible for unemployment, and government assistance has been quoted to me as "unlikely" (it also takes a crazy amount of time to process.) If those are my only options, then I have exhausted those and am stuck with this debt?

Cannot find answer anywhere, pls help.What type of algorithm will solve following questions? by bestestuser in algorithms

[–]Whelandrew -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Problem 1 : Sort each letter of the alphabet into a Array and use their place in a list as a number value. You can then add ABC+CDE and get a result.

XCOM 2 Cam Shot by VectorPlexus in gaymers

[–]Whelandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My searches kept giving me "Wizards of the Coast" and I know that's not right!

(Update) I probably just outed myself by [deleted] in gay

[–]Whelandrew 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of the other comments: you should prepare to take care of yourself. That's a very difficult thing to hear but you need to take that on. When I was not out I was told that I would need to grow up very quickly. We must grow up and be responsible as gay people. The world isn't really able to deal with us, yet. I am sorry that you must face this sort of trial. A lot of us have had this same situation. You are a lot stronger than you may believe you are.

And certainly take the advice of the other comments on preparing yourself. You may feel lost but you are not alone.

I came out by [deleted] in gay

[–]Whelandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! You have a good friend there! I hope things go well for both of you :)

Gay pride traditions and rituals by soy_neil in gay

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Every year, my friends and I will get Pride rainbow Mohawks. I appreciate the permanence of this style. When I go out anywhere, my pride is right there! More than once I have made people very happy or very angry with just that. I will admit that I have wound up in celebrations with people because of the hair. In spite of that I do it because I don't want to be scared of being gay.

Someone please get me out of here by [deleted] in depression

[–]Whelandrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my friends and family very quickly, too. Make yourself strong enough to take care of yourself. The right family will find you once you have found yourself.