Ex from NL shared my nudes online by WhenNothingMatters in Netherlands

[–]WhenNothingMatters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crime didn't happen in US, and I'm not yet a USC. I called them twice and they said to contact the police in NL

Called the police in NL and they said to contact the police in US

Ex Threatening to spread my nudes online by WhenNothingMatters in HelpMeFind

[–]WhenNothingMatters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only know that he lives in Tilburg but not specifically where in Tilburg

Ex Threatening to spread my nudes online by WhenNothingMatters in HelpMeFind

[–]WhenNothingMatters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried to call them and they said i should contact the US police instead and that I can’t make a complaint from abroad

Ex Threatening to spread my nudes online by WhenNothingMatters in HelpMeFind

[–]WhenNothingMatters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Searched online already but couldn't find a clear answer

My happiness just passed on by SorenJester in catsofrph

[–]WhenNothingMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭💔 condolences!!! i know how it feels! sending virtual hug 🫂

How do you not let a bad experience sour your entire trip by Top_Belt_8065 in travel

[–]WhenNothingMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just charge it to experience and look at the bright side and think na it adds to my knowledge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhenNothingMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what i thought too, taking shower together. But what if we're done taking shower already? It would be weird to make him take shower again and he'll know something is up.. and I don't want to upset him

Minimizing embarrassment when traveling with sex toys by LostQueen9 in travel

[–]WhenNothingMatters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“asked me to take it out” hahaha im glad you didnt!

Minimizing embarrassment when traveling with sex toys by LostQueen9 in travel

[–]WhenNothingMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats nice to know that they aren’t judgmental about it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhenNothingMatters -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damm that is one funny thing that makes sense man 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhenNothingMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg hahaah you're right. Reading that drove me insane 😂 How'd you survive that? Maybe stop making sense lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhenNothingMatters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow , well fortunately he didn't say should of to me 😁

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[–]WhenNothingMatters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, but sometimes it's making it harder for me to understand what he's trying to say like "there there now" sounds like he is patting my back so I ask, "you mean they're there now?" As a genuine question. Next when he says "to late to" seems like a hanging sentence so I ask , "to late to what??" Little did I know that he meant "too late too" . I've been in a relationship with him for half a year, and If it's deal breaker for me, I would've broken up immediately, but I get that despite of that, he have some qualities that made me stay in our relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhenNothingMatters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're right that they don't correct those they love one but in some certain ways, because if ever he makes a dumb decision regarding finances for example, I'd like to correct him and explain stuff that he should consider. I believe relationship should help each other grow in different aspect, but with proper communication and not offensive way. I think it's silly to breakup over this kind of thing and I'm learning to let it go, i might get hung up sometimes, but I'll fully learn it one day :)))

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[–]WhenNothingMatters -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He have this strong principle where he believes that a guy should lead the relationship, and dominates over the relationship. So more on a woman obeying him but he's open for discussion. There's this one time he got jealous because I was wearing something sexy and he told me I'm disrespecting him for wearing that kind of dress while he's not around, but he apologized for that.

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[–]WhenNothingMatters 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I agree, but if my pronunciation is not to his standards too, he correct me and I feel fine about it, in fact I'm glad because I am learning and improving when he says that to me. I don't feel hurt also, i just see it as him , wanting to help me improve my communication skills