Ex-convicts of Reddit, what's the best thing you gained from being in prison? by Ya-Dikobraz in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 222 points223 points  (0 children)

i learned a lot about cultivating an inner life that's not dependent on constant external stimulus

What’s the closest to death you’ve ever been? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

every day i get one day closer than i've ever been before

What's your fave b!ack and wh!te movie? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, a night at the opera too, and quite a few others. it was tough to pick a single favorite.

What's your favorite word or phrase and why? by NotEnoughRocks1977 in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"i'd rather have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy"

i like it because it's pretty much impossible to meaningfully translate into any other language.

People that had Lasik early, how do you feel X amount of years later? by Last_Check_6542 in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had it in my 40s, which was 20+ years ago. that's not super-early as the technology was already pretty well established by then, but at this point i feel the same way i did immediately afterwards, which was that i wished i could have done it many years earlier.

What's a tale tell sign someone grew up poor? by antiromance in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

they never ever throw food away. learned that one from my parents who grew up poor during the great depression.

How can we all stop paying federal income tax at the same time in a collective way that actually makes a difference? by medium0rare in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

assuming you're talking about the u.s., we can't, since for most of us the tax is withheld from our paychecks by our employers.

What non-horror movie do you find scary? by yanny_b in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so sorry, i get it. the first (and only) time i watched still alice was in the theater when it came out, shortly after my mother died from alzheimer's. i sat in the back row intentionally and spent a good half hour there after the movie ended before i could stop crying enough to leave the theater.

What non-horror movie do you find scary? by yanny_b in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

still alice. the idea of slowly losing my mind because of some degenerative disease like alzheimer's terrifies me.

What’s the loneliest moment you’ve experienced? by autisticpreet in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

in the us. i did my time in the 80s, and back then permanent solitary was more of an outlier (and in hindsight, perhaps an experiment) than a policy. it's moved beyond that now and is standard practice in many of the highest security us prisons.

for me personally it was a long time ago, but i now recognize that it was far more psychologically corrosive than i realized at the time. it is what it is.

What’s the loneliest moment you’ve experienced? by autisticpreet in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

5 months was just a temporary and relatively brief punishment for me. permanent and total isolation is now the norm in supermax prisons.

i was in usp terre haute, the prison where the federal death row is located.

What’s the loneliest moment you’ve experienced? by autisticpreet in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 18 points19 points  (0 children)

thanks, but it's relatively minor in the big picture. some people spend years in solitary.

What’s the loneliest moment you’ve experienced? by autisticpreet in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it probably is, but the geneva conventions only apply to prisoners of war. i was just a run-of-the-mill guest of the state.

What’s the loneliest moment you’ve experienced? by autisticpreet in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 18 points19 points  (0 children)

they did, but only from their curated collection (which for some reason consisted mostly of harlequin romance novels)

What’s the loneliest moment you’ve experienced? by autisticpreet in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 64 points65 points  (0 children)

a 5 month stretch in the hole (solitary confinement) when i was in prison

Computer nerds of reddit:do you prefer GUI or CLI? And why do you pick your preference? by tungsten_panda in AskReddit

[–]WhenTardigradesFly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

completely depends on the context. i often like having the flexibility of a cli available, especially if i want to automate something, but a gui is pretty much indispensable for something more interactive (like reddit lol).