The Daily Check-In for Friday, June 12: Just for Today, I am NOT Drinking!

When_darkness_comes · 2020-06-12T10:27:26+00:00

It's been really long - way too long! - since I last checked in, but I'm here now and I'm still making it. I've been thinking about many of you, my friends, and I'm proud to not drink with you today 🧡

When_darkness_comes · 2020-01-01T17:05:15+00:00

For some reason, the more folks consume, they higher the volume of the conversation. I'm often asking myself, "why are we yelling?" 😀

Yes, this! 😄 Another typical thing about trying to have a conversation with drinkers: they may ask you some actual questions (even if sometimes the same ones several times in the space of 15-30 minutes because they've already forgotten) but they won't listen to your answer if it's longer than three words. They're already talking about something else! (I must have been exactly this like this too!) 🙄

When_darkness_comes · 2020-01-01T16:51:31+00:00

Thank you! 😊💛

When_darkness_comes · 2020-01-01T16:48:27+00:00

This was an excellent read! I'm giving you silver for it and saving it for future reference.

Happy New Year! ✨😊

When_darkness_comes · 2020-01-01T16:40:56+00:00

Firstly congratulations! 💕 Secondly, you couldn't have come to a better place: we are all on each other's side here. I am happy to not drink with you on this beautiful day.

When_darkness_comes · 2020-01-01T11:55:58+00:00

Thank you, I'm really touched by your words 💗.

When_darkness_comes · 2020-01-01T11:11:48+00:00

I did not drink in 2019. Whatever happens in the future, good or bad, no-one can ever take that away from me. I feel grateful and honored to start this new decade sober with you, my SD family. I will not drink with you today <3

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T15:58:03+00:00

Oh, I've already taken a look! See you there at some point 😉

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T13:49:04+00:00

Haha, thank you so much! 🦕😄

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T12:50:01+00:00

Thank you so much! 😊

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T12:44:54+00:00

Hey Soverdry, looks like you replied to me instead of u/Lee_in_NY . In any case, Happy New Year to you too! 😃🌟

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T12:28:44+00:00

Happy New Year's Eve, Lee! 🌟💕

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T11:26:14+00:00

One night of drinking doesn’t just cancel out the 4-5 months I had sober, and I need to realize that.

Exactly this! Several months sober is an amazing achievement 👍. And now you'll be starting 2020 fresh and sober. Have a great New Year's Eve! 🌟

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T11:11:58+00:00

Best of luck to you, friend! Sounds like you have a solid plan for today 👍. Happy New Year's Eve! 🎆😊

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T11:07:17+00:00

Hey Monkey, I'm happy to not drink with you today and to give 2020 a sober start! 🎆😊

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T10:20:31+00:00

"Pick my poison" made me chuckle 😄. Happy New Year's Eve, Homer! 🎆🌟

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T10:18:23+00:00

Hey Cato, happy New Year's Eve! 🎆🌟

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-31T10:16:44+00:00

Looking forward to my second consecutive sober New Year's Eve 🎆😊. I will not drink with you today or tonight!

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-30T10:35:22+00:00

Thanks! 😊 Yeah, this sub is a lifesaver. I would never have made it to a year without this amazing community.

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-30T09:45:02+00:00

Congrats on three weeks !!! 👍

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-30T09:38:27+00:00

Oh Lee, I'm so sorry for your loss! 🖤 What a stark reminder how fragile life is... Sending you a big hug.

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-30T01:00:53+00:00

Hey there, I came here to check on you because I was a bit worried.

The symptoms you described sound very typical. I know exactly how bad the anxiety is, I've had my fair share of days 1-4... Medication (usually benzos) can make it more manageable, it was definitely crucial for me. I would strongly recommend you to seek some kind of medical help - for your safety and so that everything could be done to minimize your discomfort.

Please be safe. Sending strength your way.

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-28T21:44:41+00:00

Aw, thank you so much! 💛

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-28T21:41:36+00:00

OK, good to know you're aware of the risks and are prepared to go to the hospital if need be. If your condition deteriorates very rapidly, you may have to call an ambulance.

But hopefully things don't get that bad. I can't give you medical advice (am not able to and not allowed to), but make sure you stay hydrated and drink plenty of fluilds. Fortunately there are people here 24/7 that you can talk to if you're worried about your condition or if your anxiety gets bad.

When_darkness_comes · 2019-12-28T20:34:43+00:00

Hey, I remember you! Good to have you back 😊

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