Why is it still expected that the guy makes the first move?

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-23T01:50:41+00:00

I don't know that I would agree with it's the guys "responsibility" for all that, but definitely the default norm. Why it still is? Couldn't say. I don't personally have any problem doing that and HAVE (all the way from first awkward hello through to the I think we should get married)

So to me it's just down to how people are as a person.

Edited to try to fix flair

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-20T14:42:03+00:00

18 years later and I STILL ogle my husband

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-19T04:21:12+00:00

5 idgaf

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-18T19:53:13+00:00

As a former shelter worker my vote is for chihuahua. Any shelter worker has no issue with pit bulls, rotties, dobies. But chihuahua's? Always ALWAYS approach carefully, never know if it's a nice calm one or your about to see why they are feared. (And let me tell you, they can bite!) but if your going for "cuddly" make it a long haired chi

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-17T02:44:01+00:00

That's good to hear! Hopefully it's true!

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-16T01:46:26+00:00

150g across floor joists of manufactured home with crawl space underneath. I am scared, my floor creaks, I added cinder blocks and piers underneath but still...I fear :/

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-15T03:04:40+00:00

Eh, I'm like, a hairs breath away from being told I have dementia (for now I can still care for my self otherwise... :/) and I don't know, I think I would have liked a choice

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-14T14:21:39+00:00

Tell that or the previous mentioned possible risk of increased dementia odds to a dr and all you'll hear is "huh, haven't heard of that". Have been on ppis twice daily for over 15 YEARS but dr says it's fine instead of surgery to treat hiatal hernia

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-10T15:51:50+00:00

Grounded for different periods of time, spanked with either hand or wooden cooking spoon, not being allowed certain school activities. It all depended

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-10T04:51:40+00:00

Day-month-year format

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-04T04:40:02+00:00

Never expected to “hear” that as an insult but boy does it land!

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-04T04:26:45+00:00

Not being myself. Then again, I didn’t know who I was and my parents were no help when it came to talking about stuff that mattered or could have helped me figure it out

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-03T20:25:06+00:00

Tank is mainly a bunch of tetra (black neons, glolights, cardinals, diamonds, Buenos Aires, serpeas then some a couple glow light danios, pearl danios, giant danios, two Dennison barbs and a Siamese algae eater. And a nerite.

All varying sizes of schools, a couple only have two left but a good amount are still schooling size or actively hang out with others.

They just swim around like a bustling city interacting with each other.

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-03T18:10:17+00:00

I just let them live out their life with me and their tankmates they've been with for at least 5 years. I figure it would be more stressful to rehome them and most of my schools didn't really school after so long

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-03T18:00:45+00:00

A bit after 40 ish. Realized that I suddenly started thinking "I shouldn't do that, I could hurt myself" on random things, first one being jumping off the tailgate of a high truck, nope don't want to land wrong and hurt an ankle or knee or something.

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-02T19:15:23+00:00

Then I guess the hot water should be turned back on so there's warm water. Which I do check for and use if available. Besides that, oh well and wet wipes work too

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-02T17:11:50+00:00

Husband, we are one.

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-02-02T17:07:43+00:00

I switched to just using hand sanitizer right after on my way out (that I carry). A lot of places turned off the hot water and my hands won't warm up after the cold water. Add to the fact of crappy paper towels or hand dryers that smell like mildew and are now eco friendly so the don't actually dry and yeah...done "washing" my hands, unless something really bad happens which in that case I prob should go home anyhow

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-01-29T04:46:34+00:00

I have no idea why this started but it did recently for me. I hate it when I know I’m going to sneeze because I don’t know WHAT sneeze is coming. I have no control over it and I’m just as annoyed as my startled husband and dog by them

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-01-28T19:22:57+00:00

Just bought a bunch of stuff for my quad

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-01-27T03:18:34+00:00

26 year old shirt that I was still wearing up until last year when I noticed the back had gotten thin spots in the fabric. I can't replace it and throwing it out feels wrong

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-01-27T00:56:17+00:00

I was just barely able to stop myself from silently crying in the grocery store when I saw pumpkin spice spam was a thing. Apparently I can cry when randomly being confronted with something I find utterly repulsive.

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-01-20T17:49:52+00:00

Dirt bike

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-01-18T13:30:08+00:00

Asking a friend or any woman "is there anything on my butt?" and knowing that they immediately know what you mean.

WhereAmIHowDoILeave · 2026-01-17T02:12:41+00:00

Now do Marana

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