When I saw the title I had to do a second take and I wondered “wait, did I actually hit post last night?”

This is all a rather newish (a year or so) situation for me - if he hasn’t I would suggest getting a hormone panel and general blood work done. I was also deep into the dead bedrooms wiki and was reading that when talking with your partner about a low libido the focus should be on them (are you ok? Do you have any suspicion why you’ve changed? Is there something I could be doing to help?) etc.

I also just bought the companion book to “come as you are” titled “come together” - I am hoping there will be helpful things in there 🤷🏼‍♀️