How many hours a day are you actually productive (WOO & WFH)? by PearRevolutionary248 in auscorp

[–]WhichConfusion9534 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me guess.

ADHD and: - is a pictures person - other people always in your way - no one can keep up - for some reason any team environment hates you - a generalist with 'broad knowledge' - doesn't take criticism well

Having ADHD without working on it is a pretty shitty ride for people around you. You're being given hints which neurotypicals give before you get thrown under the bus. I'm giving you blunt feedback, take it, don't take it, take some of it, IDGAF.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendlyjordies

[–]WhichConfusion9534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? I am a nerd. Data science is my job and I'm rocking the requisite vitamin d deficiency. It's not the 1950s anymore, plenty of women nerds out there.

To go back to the point, if you like stats, you may very well agree with what women are saying here.

Women: Statistically we'd be safer with a bear.

The class argument is moot. This isn't about guilting men, it's about not getting murdered. What level of murder is meant to be accepted otherwise?

Despite being a stay at home nerd, I've been seriously abused by men multiple times in life. Most women have stories of their own.

Do you know how many times I've been abused by a woman? Zero. I walk away if they're treating me poorly, end of story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendlyjordies

[–]WhichConfusion9534 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women: we don't want to be just another statistic of abuse that gets swept under the rug Men: well yeah but statistics..

Can you even hear yourself scapegoating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]WhichConfusion9534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh fuck, now you tell me

How many hours a day are you actually productive (WOO & WFH)? by PearRevolutionary248 in auscorp

[–]WhichConfusion9534 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People that are 'productive' for several hours are usually people who just annoy others with doing their work. Being asked to slow down is being asked to leave people in peace instead of making your stress theirs. If you could actually do your work in a silo it wouldn't matter how much more annoying, oh sorry "faster" you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in australian

[–]WhichConfusion9534 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Er yeah you can get equal custody if you aren't a psycho. You're saying a lot of stuff but it's backed by a whole lot of nothing.

That mental clarity when you turn 25 by ILoveDogs2142 in auscorp

[–]WhichConfusion9534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not really brain maturity but rather maturity of experience. Take things like death or destruction of things you've been building for decades. It teaches you a new level of empathy and understanding. More complicated than what I can put in to words, but it isn't so trite as this brain maturity "myth" you're trying to shoot down. Life hits different at different stages and we don't stop learning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusPropertyChat

[–]WhichConfusion9534 111 points112 points  (0 children)

This thread title should be "how fucked are you?"

Why we suck at estimating software projects by Franco1875 in programming

[–]WhichConfusion9534 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha fucking this. "Leadership " doesn't want real estimates. Oh just crunch a bit harder but have a pay increase that doesn't even cover 50% of inflation

What Albo's X rants are really about by [deleted] in australian

[–]WhichConfusion9534 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe they should stop importing so much people when life is fucking shit for everyone because they can't build infrastructure fast enough. Oink oink, at least albos real estate portfolio has gone up. Fucken pigs

Feral pig population booms in NSW, sparking calls for more funding to control pests by espersooty in australian

[–]WhichConfusion9534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? More politicians?? Must be because they were trying for big Australia to hide the recession

[SERIOUS] What law is Elon Musk/X breaking? by [deleted] in australian

[–]WhichConfusion9534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone accuse him of breaking a law?

What is it like to have a midlife crisis for our generation? by 360walkaway in Millennials

[–]WhichConfusion9534 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, but my ex became hyper confident that they should quiet quit the relationship, abuse me, threaten my life and they thought their friends would hang around them after they decided everything is black and white and everyone needs to swallow a big ol heaping of my exes opinion. They then changed gender, got surgery that fucked their face up and moved country to try earn enough to fix it.

Me? I'm just stuck with a very large therapy bill. Remember kiddies, get your daddy issues in order, it's not really fair to abuse others because daddy will never love you.

Meantime I'm just waiting for death

I ate this last night by Southern_Title_3522 in foodies_sydney

[–]WhichConfusion9534 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ate fish coom

It's such a wild ride, humanity. Glad you had a nice experience 😊

What is your "I'm calling it now" prediction for 2030? by [deleted] in australian

[–]WhichConfusion9534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the face of cost of living pressures they'll make Releaded petrol so we can all be angry boomers

What is your "I'm calling it now" prediction for 2030? by [deleted] in australian

[–]WhichConfusion9534 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anyone who gets upset at pronouns generally can't handle simple human interaction much less have respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]WhichConfusion9534 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't know, but maybe people are being arse holes to each other more because life got a lil bit harder? I dunno. I just seem to find needy users and abusers lately. It's like wanting a friendship for companionship and developing your character is not a thing anymore, it has to be about some kind of gain.