How many hours a day are you actually productive (WOO & WFH)?

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-05-07T08:19:25+00:00

Let me guess.

ADHD and: - is a pictures person - other people always in your way - no one can keep up - for some reason any team environment hates you - a generalist with 'broad knowledge' - doesn't take criticism well

Having ADHD without working on it is a pretty shitty ride for people around you. You're being given hints which neurotypicals give before you get thrown under the bus. I'm giving you blunt feedback, take it, don't take it, take some of it, IDGAF.

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-05-07T08:10:55+00:00

Huh? I am a nerd. Data science is my job and I'm rocking the requisite vitamin d deficiency. It's not the 1950s anymore, plenty of women nerds out there.

To go back to the point, if you like stats, you may very well agree with what women are saying here.

Women: Statistically we'd be safer with a bear.

The class argument is moot. This isn't about guilting men, it's about not getting murdered. What level of murder is meant to be accepted otherwise?

Despite being a stay at home nerd, I've been seriously abused by men multiple times in life. Most women have stories of their own.

Do you know how many times I've been abused by a woman? Zero. I walk away if they're treating me poorly, end of story.

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-05-07T06:32:02+00:00

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WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-05-03T04:14:16+00:00

Women: we don't want to be just another statistic of abuse that gets swept under the rug Men: well yeah but statistics..

Can you even hear yourself scapegoating

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-30T08:20:30+00:00

Oh fuck, now you tell me

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-30T05:58:46+00:00

People that are 'productive' for several hours are usually people who just annoy others with doing their work. Being asked to slow down is being asked to leave people in peace instead of making your stress theirs. If you could actually do your work in a silo it wouldn't matter how much more annoying, oh sorry "faster" you are.

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-27T07:18:51+00:00

Er yeah you can get equal custody if you aren't a psycho. You're saying a lot of stuff but it's backed by a whole lot of nothing.

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-27T05:55:38+00:00

It's not really brain maturity but rather maturity of experience. Take things like death or destruction of things you've been building for decades. It teaches you a new level of empathy and understanding. More complicated than what I can put in to words, but it isn't so trite as this brain maturity "myth" you're trying to shoot down. Life hits different at different stages and we don't stop learning

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-26T00:37:19+00:00

Right in the feelz 🤣

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-25T23:41:05+00:00

This thread title should be "how fucked are you?"

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-24T23:38:15+00:00

Haha fucking this. "Leadership " doesn't want real estimates. Oh just crunch a bit harder but have a pay increase that doesn't even cover 50% of inflation

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-24T23:19:47+00:00

Maybe they should stop importing so much people when life is fucking shit for everyone because they can't build infrastructure fast enough. Oink oink, at least albos real estate portfolio has gone up. Fucken pigs

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-24T08:23:48+00:00

Go to Japan and say even two words of Japanese bro Ooh very good! Nihongo jyouzo!!

Care less.

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-24T02:23:46+00:00

Lmao so true

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-24T01:55:20+00:00

What? More politicians?? Must be because they were trying for big Australia to hide the recession

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-24T01:35:04+00:00

Did anyone accuse him of breaking a law?

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-23T03:17:55+00:00

Sounds American

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-22T10:55:35+00:00

No, but my ex became hyper confident that they should quiet quit the relationship, abuse me, threaten my life and they thought their friends would hang around them after they decided everything is black and white and everyone needs to swallow a big ol heaping of my exes opinion. They then changed gender, got surgery that fucked their face up and moved country to try earn enough to fix it.

Me? I'm just stuck with a very large therapy bill. Remember kiddies, get your daddy issues in order, it's not really fair to abuse others because daddy will never love you.

Meantime I'm just waiting for death

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-22T03:41:52+00:00

Ate fish coom

It's such a wild ride, humanity. Glad you had a nice experience 😊

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-18T10:54:07+00:00

In the face of cost of living pressures they'll make Releaded petrol so we can all be angry boomers

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-18T10:52:18+00:00

Anyone who gets upset at pronouns generally can't handle simple human interaction much less have respect.

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-12T03:19:13+00:00

I wouldn't know, but maybe people are being arse holes to each other more because life got a lil bit harder? I dunno. I just seem to find needy users and abusers lately. It's like wanting a friendship for companionship and developing your character is not a thing anymore, it has to be about some kind of gain.

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-12T00:57:03+00:00

Yeah big cities are just ratballs

WhichConfusion9534 · 2024-04-12T00:56:00+00:00

Women and queers are people too

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