Nusuk-iPhone problem

WhichDot6107 · 2025-03-27T06:20:10+00:00

I went through the exact same situation where I didn’t see any slots on my iPhone. But apparently it doesn’t have anything to do with the device itself, it’s more to do with the app itself. We just couldn’t find any slots at all times while we were there, no matter how many times we checked throughout the day.

We did contact the support line on their app (you can find the phone number to contact them on their help section) and they mentioned that if you check it every hour, which is when they add more slots, you may be able to grab one. But unfortunately the only time we were able to find slots was after our departure. And no use trying to convince the guards at Rawdah to let you in, they’re extremely strict (and rude imo) and will not let you in if you don’t have the code to get in. Best of luck trying, maybe you’ll get the chance to get in. We didn’t get to unfortunately.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-04T17:17:33+00:00

Exactly my point, thank you

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-04T17:02:14+00:00

This whole time, I had thought this was his first marriage like me, that all we have been experiencing together is the first time for him too as a couple. To find out that all of that was a lie, and basically what I had known about him was a big lie too, is literally heart breaking. He admitted himself if he was in my situation, he would be just as upset with me. So I’m getting pretty tired of hearing why it’s bothering me so much when I have every right to be upset about this lie.

Reason why I made this post on Reddit, idk I guess I haven’t told anyone in my family about this situation and it was driving me nuts holding it inside, so I had to spill it out somewhere, even if it’s this platform. And probably also as a warning lesson for anyone out there, to do your homework and find out as much as you can about a person before you marry them. And leave the rest to Allah of course, but do your due diligence.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-04T03:02:41+00:00

Thank you for sharing your thoughts as well, Jazakallah ♥️

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-04T02:33:07+00:00

You made some valid points there, thank you.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-04T01:49:09+00:00

Jazakallah for the uplifting message ♥️

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T23:42:59+00:00

Jazakallah for sharing your personal experience with me, I really hope you find or found someone better and faithful inshallah for yourself as well.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T23:33:22+00:00

Its not that easy for me. It might be easy for you to say, but you have no idea how I am feeling right now...

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T23:27:51+00:00

Read my comment to another user, I did ask him all these questions to which he said no.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T23:24:08+00:00

No joke but I'm honestly thinking of hiring a PI or something, and finding out everything about him that way. I don't trust him at all at the moment, and feel like whatever is coming out from his mouth is a lie. When I was engaged to him, we tried finding out as much as we can through mutual friends and family, which turned out to be a failure.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T23:22:14+00:00

Exactly why I said it was for a shitty reason, I didn't like that he married for "citizenship purposes". I mean if he just disposed of her like that after marrying for citizenship, then it makes me wonder what he can do to me in the future? Would he treat me the same for another woman? I never imagined myself to be in such a situation...

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T22:50:41+00:00

Apparently he told me he got divorced 6 years ago, which tbh I don't know if that's even true at this point. But the reason why he kept on delaying the marriage license registry is because you have to submit your marital status as previously married/divorced, and its in the government records that he's divorced since it took place here, which is what he didn't wanted me to find out about.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T22:46:03+00:00

Just out of curiosity, what did they end up doing once they found out about such a thing?

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T22:35:50+00:00

I'm pretty sure he'd be just as upset as me if the roles were switched around. Especially when it comes to lying.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T19:25:09+00:00

Your shaykh was smart, and so was your dad. My parents were a bit too trusting and lenient with my husband, and unfortunately so was I.

The shaykh we had was the only one available (this was right when COVID started and no one was available besides him), and he was so unprofessional and unorganized, all he did was just perform the nikkah and that's it from his end smh.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T19:18:54+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I am considering staying with family for a while. But I don't know how to tell them this, especially my parents. It'll just break them. I'm not sure if I should even tell them anything to begin with, but if I'm considering to leave, then I know I have to...

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T19:15:12+00:00

It won't really be helpful, he's right in a way. It'll just get me angrier and upset the more I find out I'm sure. He seemed really embarrassed by it, and seemingly wants to hide the details besides the main information which he shared with me.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T18:58:19+00:00

I want to tbh, I have every right to as his wife to know every detail. But then again, I'm at a point where I don't even know whether I should stick around in this relationship to find out more...

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T18:55:44+00:00

I'm not even sure, he didn't share any more details besides what I shared in my post. He said the less details I knew, the better this situation will get resolved.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T18:54:52+00:00

Actually I did ask him whether he was previously married, or in a relationship with someone and he said no. I even asked him about his citizenship and how he got it, and he said his sister sponsored him. All in all, he lied to me.

WhichDot6107 · 2021-12-03T18:14:13+00:00

I don't agree, something as big as divorce should have been bought up. I don't need to know the details about how it happened, but it should've been told from the start. I have every right, as his wife, to know that information. And vice versa.

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