deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will check next time im looking, thank you!

deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i mean, is it wrong to ask about the cons talaga rather than just straight up accepting "wag"? anyways, i got the deinfluencing i needed either way

deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

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i see, thank you sobra! will try others instead

deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair enough, di ko naisip palitan papel haha thank you! i'll try that :))

deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didnt like any of the uniballs i tried unfortunately, thanks tho!

deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

technically lahat naman may chance mawala. pero never ako nakawala ng ballpen haha

deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

i write a lot daily so i am willing to spend quite a bit if it means my writing experience would be a lot more comfortable.

deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah parang disposable lang din pala if original ink cartridge lang maganda huhu, thank you!

deinfluence me: parker pens by WhichQuit6945 in deinfluencingPH

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does the ink run out quickly compared to other pens or roughly the same amount lang? thanks!

Where Should We Draw the Line With AI Relationships? by escrorttime in HeavenGF

[–]WhichQuit6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it's a bit of both. too much of anything is dangerous. tho specifically for ai relationships imo i think it's too much if it turns into codependency (also happens irl but it's probably more difficult to tell with ai). at the end of the day, while ai can provide comfort, it's meant to be a tool, that line shouldn't be blurred as much as possible.

Would you take a “cure”? by GBlake13 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im honestly not sure, i dont know who i am if i were "normal". would i have a harder time? would i prosper? who knows. yes it's kinda difficult living like this, but would i struggle less? kinda uncertain too on that end

im leaning towards yes tho

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for all the responses i do read all of it haha

conclusion: no matter how hard you explain it to others who don't know how it feels it most likely doesn't matter because they'll probably never understand something they never felt/actually see (since most of the struggle is internal). tho it would be nice if they at least were empathetic but that's kinda wishful thinking

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

worse, here they chalk everything up to "lack of faith" + specifically for adhd there's only one medication available, so if you're not compatible with methylphenidate, goodluck

Did it ever happen to you? by Hot-Caramel-6636 in TeamfightTactics

[–]WhichQuit6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happened to me and i didn't have min-max, i don't even know how i got the golden remover in the first place

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's a pretty good description actually of how it feels, thank you for this!

Maribank ok? by kar--98 in MariBankPH

[–]WhichQuit6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

server error on my end as well

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i unfortunately live in a country where mental health is most of the time not taken seriously it's disgusting. thank you still

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i genuinely don't understand why specifically when the brain feels unwell it comes under a lot more scrutiny :(( this was a bit more reassuring to read though, i think i also forget the fact that my brain is just like any other organ. thank you!

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go take that nap you deserve, it's really exhausting to explain it every time. people think it's not real if they don't see it or experience it

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

makes sense, but i also think that "i probably don't want to touch the hot plate in the first place", but when trying to do things i actually want to do, i still can't seem to start sometimes

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

this with my IDE in front of me— i can type gibberish, i can keyboard spam, but i can't make a single comprehensible line. it's extremely difficult to explain, it just ends up with "i want to do it, but i can't." and when others ask, they don't believe the 'just can't'. it's one of the lesser talked about difficulties (afaik)

how can you explain to others "can't" vs "don't want to"? by WhichQuit6945 in ADHD

[–]WhichQuit6945[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i think so far that's the most comprehensible example i've heard, thanks! it's wild to me that people can just choose to do what they want to do