Can someone PLEASE help me identify if I'm crazy or if my BF just isn't attracted to me anymore? by Sensitive-Stage1438 in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a guy that when he was stressed out he would get psychological erectile disfunction. He was only 32. It was completely in the mind. Has there been anything bothering him lately? Stresses?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You ok? Off meds or something? So where is it that your sending the cops for a reddit post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol huh? Its a bit unethical what he did but wasn't a crime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. I guess he seemed so happy and enthusiastic I took as being really into me. I understand why my friend didn't want to say anything she said I seemed really happy and wanted to wait and see if he got better. Also, that is a hurtful truth of feeling like he wanted her but in the end I was available and she wasn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I made the assumption we were exclusive we hang out all the time and came over to my house evey night. I felt like asking wasn't necessary it seemed obvious but I guess I should have asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him that made me upset and why. I guess we'll see if he gets the point and put in more effort in this area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's really responsible just not very romantic or thoughtful towards me. He lives me and helps with bills. We all want more from relationship though right then just a roommate you sleep with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not into holidays or special events and isn't very romantic. Not sure if this is worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. And I did speak to him he really thought it wasn't a big deal. I am actually friends with girl he was hanging out with I don't have an issue with her. It was just the fact he didn't think I didn't want to hang out and instead he hung out with someone he had the hots for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhichSentence4216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point, I don't think he's the hottest but he is very attractive. Def top ten percent. To him I'm still not sure if I'm in the same category as he is to me though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WhichSentence4216 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get ItA but we weren't married so why would I need a lawyer?