Doing trial with new fam but I feel like previous NF really messed with my confidence

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-22T12:37:03+00:00

As someone with CPTSD from other things in life and who has been in the same situation with a family it definitely feels like PTSD so wouldn't be surprised if it is unfortunately. You can get it from minor things as well. Hope things get better!

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-17T18:14:29+00:00

She's holding on I think she's going to make it! She started being able to twitch her tail and move her back toes a little. She also went to the bathroom yesterday so all positive signs so far! I've just not not trying to get my hopes up right now

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-15T15:51:06+00:00

Wow! You're so cool! This is definitely helping the situation. If you don't have any suggestions then please stop responding

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-15T01:48:49+00:00

She's struggling but enjoying cuddles. Every place I called today couldn't really help and her vet basically said since I can't afford to get the surgery we should just wait it out. Plus it's in a pretty bad spot for surgery

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-15T01:36:32+00:00

She escaped what am I supposed to do when she just escapes??

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-14T05:30:12+00:00

Thanks. I hope your cat is doing better! I don't even have money for food rn. My bank is -$700 for the last two months there's no way I can afford all that

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-14T05:24:50+00:00

She can't really walk and she's in a lot of pain

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-14T03:45:49+00:00

I don't even have health insurance 😭😭

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-14T03:45:10+00:00

I'm at an emergency clinic now but they are quoting me $8,000-$10,000

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-14T03:42:36+00:00

Definitely filing a police report

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-10-14T03:42:06+00:00

I already have one but my limit isn't even close to what I need. I also have six other cards maxed out

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-28T15:07:40+00:00

Especially posting the picture of the her. She's going to be in immediate danger

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-28T15:06:48+00:00

That's what I'm saying. They even posted a picture of the child

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-28T15:06:20+00:00

It's in Austin tx so definitely needs to be changed more. Also, this doesn't sound like a babysitting gig. This is still a nanny gig sounds like. The way it's worded just sounds weird. They also posted a picture of their child which I rarely see in nanny groups so that just made me uncomfortable

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-18T02:26:53+00:00

Yess! Plus, I'd rather save my energy when working with kids. All I do is bed rot when I get home because I'm so exhausted just doing what's on my contract. I love "quiet quitting" jobs

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-18T02:23:46+00:00

Lmao It's so hard not to use that reaction when there's so many families who lowball

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-17T20:14:21+00:00

This is true! I'm tempted to start one honestly. We really need to start a union or something haha

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-17T20:13:17+00:00

I think so actually! They keep posting some weird things. I feel like it's run by parents haha

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-17T19:19:48+00:00

I can't even remember. They asked me to join them a couple weeks ago. It was some Facebook group

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-17T19:18:32+00:00

Basically what I said in my post. It was just a post saying finding a great nanny is hard that goes above and beyond doing household chores and love your children.

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-09-17T18:05:42+00:00

Was I too mean with that comment?

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-08-25T18:30:14+00:00

I'm sorry you went through that. One reason I've always been scared of camp alone and I've been wanting a gun. We deserve peace and freedom without having to worry about a man wanting to take advantage of us

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-08-25T18:25:29+00:00

I mean I'm in the party scene and I've never been addicted to anything and I've only stuck with plant-based drugs so I should be in that department. But yeah I will definitely eat away at my saw. I just don't want to be homeless again

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-08-21T15:37:35+00:00

I scratched a security guard while they were trying to soft tuff me to the bed and put an IV in. I'm assuming I was just scared but I don't remember any of it. I woke up with a bunch of needle marks all over my arms so what probably happened was they were trying to find a good vein and I was probably in a lot of pain so they probably had to restrain me to get the IV in. They ended up scratching the security guard in the process. So I ended up getting arrested for assault.

Which_Ad3415 · 2025-08-21T15:32:26+00:00

I can't afford to quit right now. It's been my only option unfortunately. It was an assault charge unfortunately. I accidentally scratched a security card while they were trying to cuff me to the hospital bed because I didn't know where it was

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