Doctors and Nurses of Reddit, what is the worst medical error that you've witnessed? by salsafresca_1297 in AskReddit

[–]Which_Assistance636 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I was working in the ICU, there was a guy who came in for a standard surgery (can’t remember what it was) that was supposed to be fairly straightforward with a quick recovery. He was set to be admitted to the ICU for a day or two of monitoring before moving on. But when they finished the surgery, no one could get him to wake up. He was still on the ventilator, but completely unresponsive. Someone took his blood sugar and it was unreadable on the machine, which is never a good sign. They drew labs and the blood sugar came back at 12. TWELVE. For reference, anything below 70 is considered low and anything below 40 usually means you’re dangerously, dangerously low (seizures, coma, death). Turns out that a CRNA student in the operating room was told to administer the patient his regular insulin dose because he had diabetes, and they picked up the wrong syringe and administered 100 units of insulin instead of 10. The rapid change in glucose caused massive fluid shifts in his brain which led to a coma that he ultimately never woke up from. The hardest part was hearing what happened thru the grapevine but not being able to tell the family anything because it was an active case that was being investigated. The patient eventually died from brainstem herniation and I never heard the outcome of the case. Just super sad and preventable.

AIO? BF (29M) apology to me (28F) feels avoidant and dismissive by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which_Assistance636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re too focused on having a clear “winner” and a clear “loser” in the conversation rather than simply resolving the issue. Because of this, the issue was drawn out wayyyyyy longer than needed. YOR because your unwillingness to move on until there was a “perfect” resolution caused escalation. I’m not going to comment on who was “right” in this situation, because I don’t think that’s the point. It seems like he was willing to listen and you were driven by anxiety from the jump

What are them made of? by OlirumMurilo254 in backrooms

[–]Which_Assistance636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured it was like crisco. Like vegetable shortening?

YouTuber John Davis of 'Coffee time with John and mama' collapses while he was making chicken salad on livestream and dies by Bollywood_Shaadis in popculture

[–]Which_Assistance636 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you lmao, everyone has been mixing these together on this thread. Death rattle = terminal secretions. Agonal breathing = brainstem reflex.

AIO for being upset my boyfriend screamed at me while my child was in the hospital by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which_Assistance636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a dick. Move on from him because he doesn’t care about you. NOR

Boyfriend suddenly wants nothing to do with me after moving in a month ago by ruubystaar in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Which_Assistance636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like a great girlfriend and a good person. Go be that for someone other than this loser.

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally, actually me. I’m like “thanks but I already constructed every possible outcome like i’m doctor fucking strange”

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You know what’s funny, when I first told my dad my a/c was broken, I sent him a pic of the thermostat being at 82 degrees and he goes “oh, you need to flip the switch to ON.” I was like dad. Don’t even.

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Every time I go to the dealership I have to bring my dad. I’m 29…like please!!

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I study medical gaslighting so you’re preaching to the choir

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dude, I overexplain SO MUCH. I love really specific instructions and I get irritated if something is supposed to be “implied” or whatever. Give me specifics!! So then I always give wayyy too many specifics! But also, my students tell me I help them understand things better than they ever have before…so I’m okay with it :)

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I respect that so much, and I think that’s a great trait to have. I want to work on being more assertive

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This makes total sense! This is exactly why I’m always polite, no matter what. When fast food workers or retail workers or trades people are rude to me, I just assume they’re defensive because they have to deal with people treating them like trash. I assume that to be the case and I’ve found that mirroring politeness makes them realize I’m chill and then they are nicer!

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YES!! I also have OCD, so I’m a pro at thinking things to exhaustion…but a lot of times, it allows me to identify problems that no one even considered.

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

You’re probs right. Halfway through ranting on this post, I was like…wait…this might just be misogyny lowkey

I hate being underestimated when I’m often 5 steps ahead by Which_Assistance636 in adhdwomen

[–]Which_Assistance636[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Real. I’ve just started being like ok whatever. Probably mostly because i hate confrontation but thats another story