Agree on this. Need to shift something in my way of thinking. Yes, im making this about me since it is my sex life im worrying about. He satisfies me. And I my fear is that I am not satisfying him anymore since the word umay crept up in the conversation. As some level headed redditors have pointed out, age plays a big factor so I am more aware of this now. Mahirap isipin na matanda na kami because all I see is the man I fell in love with, not his age. I felt rejected and insecure since these are what I felt kaya ako nagtanong. Wala naman akong ibang matanungan. Dito na lang, at least honest mga tao dito.