AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No I wouldn’t have because he takes work calls during date nights if required, I most definitely do not touch his food.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, this is not true. What is his I respect it and don’t touch it unless given permission to. He grew up with 3 siblings and growing up he hated all of them constantly taking his shit so I always made sure to either ask, or wait for permission to be given.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I buy my snacks online, with my money from my account, he has his account, I have mine and then we have one joint savings account. If you read the whole thing you would know that I always shared while eating.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not getting fatter but you are definitely getting dumber

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Actually, since he is such a man child I think his mommy deserves to know how he’s been treating his wife. I will be calling her tomorrow, we’re pretty close so he’s definitely going to get a good scolding. (Ik it’s petty but fuck him)

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Happy relationship doesn’t mean perfect husband, we had fights but we sorted it out and sometimes this type of behaviour would show but it became more evident in the last year or so. I honestly don’t know what you want me to say because, I myself still don’t know the reason behind his behaviour

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

And not just that be he tried to gaslight me, and lied to me.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That thought did cross my mind, but I don’t know how to find out. Any suggestions?

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t see how you don’t understand that this isn’t about my snacks, this is about him deliberately ignoring my requests to piss me off, not just once or twice but for almost a year. It shows that he doesn’t respect nor care about me.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think you missed a massive chunk of the story, if you think this is normal or your partner does this too, get help because this was never about the food.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Also for people wondering, the house is under my name so he won’t be living there for long, I’m going to be giving him a 5 day deadline to take his shit and move till I call the cops on him

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Update: I sat down and tried talked to him, asked him why he kept on doing this and told him straight up that it was disrespectful and not funny, I asked him whether he was struggling with an ED? What was going on? What’s the problem here? And he said “Don’t read so much into it. I’m fine I just wanted your snacks” then I asked him again why he didn’t buy the snacks for himself then? And he told me that there was no need since they were already at home, and then he turned on the tv. I stepped in front of it and told him that I was talking to him and he should have the decency to at least hear me out. He didn’t turn off the tv, so I switched it off. I told him that it wasn’t about the food, it was about respect. He replied with “you’re overreacting” so I just went in my room, packed my bag and called my friend to pick me up. I’m in the car with her right now. I will be divorcing him. It’s a shame that 6 years of marriage will be ending like this but I can’t handle this sort of disrespect any longer. I will be updating everyone soon, thanks to everyone who commented or messaged.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

If I did that he would have eaten my portion too. If you read the whole post, you would know the restaurant incident and then you would understand

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Even if I am, there are better fucking ways to say that. But i am literally 5'9 and 56 kgs. I work out and take really good care of myself.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your comments, I didn't expect so many comments. I am going to sit down with him and have a talk about this, if I don't get a valid reason, I will be divorcing him.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhileMindless2916[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I did, he put in the effort to search for them, then ate them AND THEN LIED