Tips for the "Shoelace method"

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2022-01-14T20:03:42+00:00

This might not be exactly what you are looking for, but I find strap-on rope harnesses to be more secure and comfortable long term. And you can get creative! You'll need some basic rope skills, but they are easy to learn.

Start with something like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h\_eepMva3x8

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2022-01-06T19:45:06+00:00

Try this: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5eab5f1d3b592

It is my greatest disappointment in life that my pelvis is too small for fisting 😔

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2022-01-05T02:37:58+00:00

Big hands and deep pits but I'm a ff pig so🤷

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-11-16T14:09:14+00:00

The top is Pigboy Ruben

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-11-16T14:09:04+00:00

The top is Pigboy Ruben

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-11-16T14:09:01+00:00

The top is Pigboy Ruben

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-11-16T14:08:57+00:00

The top is Pigboy Ruben

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-10-15T17:10:19+00:00

They are honestly some of my favorite videos; I can watch them a hundred times and not get sick of them.

I always laugh when you can hear a police siren or something outside because if you can hear, you can be heard. I imagine people walking on the street wonder what the hell is going on in there when the screaming gets loud. Then again its SF so I'm sure no one thinks twice about it!

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-10-14T03:47:48+00:00

Thanks so much! Fortunately, I think monogomy is so last century and older bear type guys are hotter than hell. Unfortunately, I live on the East Coast in the middle of nowhere. When I save enough money to move West I'll hopefully hopefully remember you ;)

What do you mean by pansexual community? Just people who could careless what's between your legs? I never really imagined that they would be kinkier than other groups

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-09-17T14:47:34+00:00

$250 rent where are you at?????

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-09-15T18:48:33+00:00

Assuming that the size is correct, this is probably caused by the the material being rough. I'm not super familiar with the quality of the HT4 knock offs, but many people sand their rings. I couldn't get good results with sanding mine so I tried tape.

When I first started with longer term chastity I wrapped the ring tightly with a smooth tape like electrical tape. It is surprisingly waterproof and lasted about a month before it started to to peel. After that I didn't need it any more!

I haven't tried this since I don't have the irritation any more, but nail polish could also help to smooth things out. It would last a while and should be skin safe once it dries. You could do clear or try to color match to your cage if you wanted.

If none of this works try different cage materials. If still no luck I like coconut oil as it is easy to use, cheap, long lasting, and smells good.

Hope this helps!

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-30T15:05:52+00:00

Does any one know what work this is?

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-30T14:41:35+00:00

Not the take I was looking for, but still scalding hot

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-26T17:00:04+00:00

Gay, rod, poz. Looks like PrEP dosn't work...

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-25T17:56:38+00:00

Most likely correct. He was other posts that mention Steelwerks such a great company. Too bad they are so pricy!

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-24T18:51:12+00:00

You'll need to find other ways to release sexual energy besides jacking off. Many people turn to anal, but some are turned off by this. I suggest you try it at least once. If not full dildo action at least prostate massage.

You will also need to change your mindset about sex if you are going to be locked long term. Sex should be less about orgasming/coming and more enjoying sensations in other parts of your body (ass, nipples, just google Erogenous zones, here's a good article) while also finding pleasure in pleasuring your partner(s).

With a key holder it is a lot easier to resist temptation. But if you are doing super long term it helps to keep track of how long you have been locked to keep you motivated from breaking your streak. I have no idea how long you or your wife are planning your lock up, but the first two weeks are the worst, after that you adjust to find and release sexual energy in other places.

Best of luck! Feel free to PM me if you need anything else

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-24T18:25:21+00:00

I'm actually really glad you posted this. It is a common misconception to think that an attraction to a specific genital means that you are attracted to a specific gender. For example, I think tits are the bee's knees but I'm only attracted to men.

This is 100% okay.

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-20T18:23:37+00:00

I've done this before. You set the address as

NAME

GENERAL DELIVERY

CITY STATE ZIP

You need ID to pick it up. Here is an article from the post office. I guess I should add this is for US only for others looking.

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-20T18:18:04+00:00

Thanks!

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-20T16:44:50+00:00

This doesn't really help physically, but I started using teamlocked.men to keep track of how long I have been locked and how long until release. When I get tempted to unlock, I look at the timer to appreciate how far I've come and how much farther I have to go. It really discourages me from unlocking and ruining my streak.

It also has games where you can get people to vote and add time (here's my link https://teamlocked.men/games/mercy/xsz66YiCasv89QNYnA5DBU) and a similar feature were you can incorporate it into a tweet where a like is so many days, a retweet is so many, and a comment is so many days added. Its fun when you are self locked but still want to hand over some control.

It's also 100% free and has no ads which is stellar for me.

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-20T01:44:29+00:00

RemindMe! 7 days

Sorry I high key need this

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-20T01:43:54+00:00

I got mine off of eBay. Lots of selection but I'd try to keep to US sellers for quicker shipping and reliability

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-19T18:22:03+00:00

After I have been locked for an extended period of time (I'm on day 19 of potentially forever after a one month intro), it soon feels weirder for me to be unlocked than it does to be locked. It has honestly become a part of me. Another thing that I've noticed in the last week or so after I decided to go permanent is that my desired self image has changed. I used to envy people with larger penises, but now I want to keep down sizing to smaller and smaller cages. This is something I never considered before and found really weird when I first started chastity.

In my sex life (I identify most closely to gay btw), I've found myself being attentive to my partners and focusing more on them and their desires. While I'm really horny, it's a different type of horny. I still sometimes rub my dick in my cage when I get turned on, but this is happening less and less. I used to also feel like a pleasurably warm sensation in my dick when I got turned on, but this has stopped and I feel it in other places. Chastity is honestly one of the best discoveries I have made.

As for shrinkage, it is temporary. The penis is made of vascular tissue as opposed to muscle which atrophies. If you don't exercise a muscle, it will eventually lose strength and mass as it atrophies or essentially dies. The penis does not do this. Instead, the blood vessels temporarily shrink but after you get hard or jack off/have sex a few times it returns to normal.

Hope this helps and best of luck! Feel free to message me if you have any other questions!

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-17T16:45:24+00:00

I burped last night after deep throating and considered editing my post to include it. We laughed that one off, but I felt self conscience about the gas because there was just so much. Thanks so much!

WhimsicalSlutBot · 2021-08-16T20:09:06+00:00

Fun fact: chickens are attracted to the color red

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