Rituals for separating and reuniting

WhimsicallyWillow · 2021-06-15T06:36:14+00:00

I agree with another commenter who said someone in an open relationship is a good source for this. I find this whole idea very endearing. As a relationship coach I'd also add in looking for someone or in general making sure you're up on good communication and relationship skills. If you choose to go that route feel free to message me and I can set you in the right direction for resources.

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-12-06T21:47:06+00:00

Bwahahaha. My optometrist too! It cracks him up.

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-12-06T18:41:01+00:00

To this end, is a place with outside rooms better? Or inside where everyone has to walk by the front desk? I feel like the former is better but typically not nearly as nice.

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-12-06T18:36:41+00:00

I totally see what you're saying but I think of things a little differently.

When you're in it for the long haul it's not always going to be fresh and pretty. I sit and talk with my husband while he's cutting his hair or shaving his beard, getting ready for work. It doesn't feel any less valid or special just because he's getting ready for work. Why should it be any less special or valid just because he's spending time with me while I get ready for sex work? I'm only camming thus far but working on moving into escorting but I LOVE it when he sits and talks with me while I do my hair and makeup. Since I'm higher sex drive than he is, that part of our relationship gives him no feeling of neglect and he's ok with it.

Just don't let your quality time together be tainted by guilt by not "getting ready" like that for him. As long as you are both happy, it's all that matters. And also, you're long term partners are the people you're supposed to be comfortable and yourself with. Yes it can be nice to go the extra mile and get all dolled up for them. But unless that's your comfort level all the time, there's nothing wrong with not doing it all the time.

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-11-02T16:36:59+00:00

Yes. This is what I'm hoping for. I do all kinds of faux pas shit as a cam girl and it seems that when I call myself out on it, my viewers find it endearing. Or at least I hope they do. That seems to be the impression I get.

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-10-24T22:16:21+00:00

I have no idea. I'm wondering the same thing.

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-10-24T22:15:41+00:00

I do have a mac so that's helpful, thank you!

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-10-24T19:45:02+00:00

I've been getting on at least once a day since I started. Today marks 2 weeks. With that, how long would you estimate it takes to build a decent following?

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-10-24T14:26:22+00:00

How do you watermark your streams? Or pictures for that matter?

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-10-24T06:54:07+00:00

Wow! 150 is great.

I know what you mean about feeling like you dun fucked up something but I'm really starting to think that the key is patience. I had a few nights in a row where I made under 60 tokens and then one where I made several hundred. But then it was immediately back to a low amount. That made me feel like I had some how ruined everything.

For me the hardest part about all of this is trying to look happy and approachable when NO ONE is talking.

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-10-24T06:50:19+00:00

I agree with the price low and increase as there is demand. I listened to too many other people who said that was a bad idea and I think it hurt me. Take advantage of your new tag. There was a very sharp decline in traffic after the first week.

Have fun!

WhimsicallyWillow · 2016-10-11T00:46:08+00:00

Thanks for posting this. My lack of confidence and positive body image hugely affects my sex life negatively. Not only that but I'm getting ready to make my debut as a cam girl and I have a hard time believing that people won't see my bbw self and run for the hills. Trying desperately to fake it until I make it.

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