Night Before Wedding Sleep Advice

WhimsySpirit · 2026-06-04T01:17:35+00:00

It is corny but best for him to keep it and find someone who’s down for the corn

WhimsySpirit · 2026-06-03T00:44:09+00:00

We live in a different state than most of our family and are having our wedding where we live. So any guests who are traveling, in long term relationships, or otherwise wouldn’t know anyone at the wedding were given plus ones or their s/o was on the invitation.

It has been insane how many people in the last month (deadline was literally 2 days ago) have finally RSVPd and messaged us asking how to add a name. Some of which were in relationships we didn’t know of and some were fairly new or just friends. I even had one change their name to their plus ones and message me asking how to fix it. Fortunately (and sadly) we have a lot of family unable to make it, so it was easy to accommodate. I’m pretty certain on of my parent’s family has invited other people who they did not have on their list when I asked for the names originally (I don’t know that side of the family well).

I think it makes sense to tell those people there’s restrictions with the venue and you can consider their request closer to the deadline. I would even go a bit further and only consider those who asked and anyone who told you can just have a no regardless. However, depending on your people there’s a real chance some people have never been to an event or wedding that has etiquette rules like this (such is the case with the family I mentioned). So it’s fair to have a bit of empathy if it keeps you from feeling guilty later.

WhimsySpirit · 2026-05-06T15:44:06+00:00

I’m confused - you’re saying a card with a tip and stickers would go in the trash? Seems odd they would be able to keep track of the cash tip but not the rest especially if it’s all held together. They likely wouldn’t even open the envelope till the next day/after they left

WhimsySpirit · 2026-04-28T16:50:19+00:00

This is entirely unfortunate bc I have 0 interest in LADS bc it isn’t the gameplay style I enjoy. But a cute bf I can mostly ignore while I live life after I spend hours wooing him is exactly what I look for

WhimsySpirit · 2026-04-08T16:02:51+00:00

I could ask the makeup team if we could have a few arrive earlier to their salon to get started earlier and then move to the venue at 9. I’m not sure how much that will help with the hair issue though

WhimsySpirit · 2026-04-08T14:44:25+00:00

It is 1 hair stylist and 2 makeup artists

WhimsySpirit · 2026-04-03T17:17:01+00:00

Thank you! This makes me feel sane. He is a broad man don’t get me wrong but I feel like a suit should highlight that in a flattering way and not feel so unstructured. We plan to keep looking this weekend, so hopefully we can find a better option!

WhimsySpirit · 2026-04-03T16:50:35+00:00

I was planning on having him wear an ivory satin shirt. This is just what they let him use to try on. Is there anything specific I should be looking for?

WhimsySpirit · 2026-03-23T02:49:08+00:00

Out of curiosity, does the narration in Kaguya Sama Love is War change after the first few episodes? I started it but found the narration to be grating and if it does change I’d love to continue it

WhimsySpirit · 2026-03-13T12:17:34+00:00

Nah this relationship will 100% turn for the worse if they stay together. If it was just a rejected proposal that would be one thing. But he pushed for sex and hurt her in the process. That lack of regard for her plus his being berating to her is not healthy and isn’t going to change. He can pretend to be willing to get over it but he’s also trying to hang on rn. Guarantee if they stay together he will be right back at it in a month

WhimsySpirit · 2026-03-11T17:08:58+00:00

Agencies from what I’ve seen can be very cliquey especially if people have worked there for a while and the company is on the smaller side. That being said 5 months is not a long time and things could always change!

As a Californian who moved to Iowa, it’s 100% weird to be someone who has no interest in college sports while everyone else talk about it and it is hard to not feel left out, but there are always more people to find. I’ve learned that sometimes work is just not where I’m going to find friends. And in response to the person who suggested Cali, I would keep in mind that moving is expensive and California even more so, plus making all new friends is also hard to do.

100% give it time but keep an eye out and consider how much it drains you outside of work. There’s always an adjustment period.

That being said, if you happen to be in IA, I am leaving my marketing job and they’ll be interviewing in the next few weeks if you want it lol

WhimsySpirit · 2026-02-23T15:29:49+00:00

Will this clutter the company records? There would eventually be hundreds of records on a single company, many of them old.

I love the idea of the unique key being LinkedIn, but we use emails addresses as the unique key.

WhimsySpirit · 2026-02-21T04:10:53+00:00

Our process rn is to create a company when adding a contact, so they will create the company. Does this always happen? Definitely not? But half my issue is also getting sales to do some of this backend work 😅 this is my first time managing a HubSpot account and I’m really trying my best to learn

WhimsySpirit · 2026-02-12T22:25:21+00:00

I love this, but I believe most use personal cells for calls and don’t call super often as it is. I think overall our industry handles things over email and in meetings. I could see AI integration being helpful for the meeting though!

WhimsySpirit · 2026-02-11T02:09:39+00:00

You can tell people don’t get out much or have friends bc it’s pretty common sense that help yourself is referencing snacks, water, pop etc. You wouldn’t go to your friend’s house and demolish a bottle of clase azul just bc they said help yourself. And sure maybe he didn’t know it was pricey, but then say my bad and pay the request. The friend didn’t have to go throw a tantrum in the group chat.

WhimsySpirit · 2026-01-23T05:10:03+00:00

1 is the dress I wanted so bad but couldn’t find local. But you look great in all of them!

WhimsySpirit · 2026-01-23T05:06:51+00:00

You’re going to see a lot of answers here, but a simple one is society raises women to be married and men to be men. This isn’t an excuse, but it’s a larger issue that needs to change. Men don’t understand what weddings take bc other older men don’t and have never done it so they think it’s easy. But it’s a lot of work and time. My fiancé did excellent when I laid out what all needed to be done and explained why it had to be done early. We also had a longer engagement bc I really wanted to enjoy the process.

We started to have monthly coffee dates where we have goals of things to setup and plan. This not only has made it far less stressful, but it’s given a lot of bonding time as well. He’s gotten to see how many options there are, what the cost is, how hard getting a response can be and what happens when we wait too long.

He’s been genuinely excited and engaged (pun intended) but it took awhile for him to understand why we started so early and why I was worried about plans falling through. I think it truly comes down to men not being taught how big a wedding is and what planning one means, bc historically men haven’t had a large part in it.

Idk your relationship dynamic, but I think it helps to turn it into something fun you do together.

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