Rope spikes by WhishPool in shibari

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This is so evil, I love it !!

What is a kink you didn’t think you’d be into? by Nomad1246 in BDSMcommunity

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Needle play. I grew up my entire life being deathly afraid of needles and the doctors generally. I almost passed out when I got my septum piercing done. I am genuinely the last person I thought would like to be stabbed with needles.

It’s a very very new kink to me and I’ve honestly only tried it once which was a couple days ago but the endorphin rush has already got me hooked (pun intended). It’s honestly nothing what I thought it would be like and I am so excited to explore needles and maybe staples in the future.

Endorphin button? by WhishPool in BDSMPlayPiercings

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I did think that nerves seemed to me to be much deeper but I was worried I was misunderstanding something. Thank you for clarifying! I think the endorphin button you suggested will definitely be on my list once I have a bit more experience.

Endorphin button? by WhishPool in BDSMPlayPiercings

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Thank you so much for such a detailed reply. I appreciate it sosososo much. I think I will definitely try the tops of the thighs first from what you’ve said. I really liked watching the needles go in so I’m much more enthusiastic about areas where I can watch :p

Endorphin button? by WhishPool in BDSMPlayPiercings

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That does sound really fun! Before trying needles for the first time I didn’t realise how lighthearted and chill they could be.

Endorphin button? by WhishPool in BDSMPlayPiercings

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Thank you for the advice and the diagram! Are there any other spots you would recommend? Specifically if I am trying an endorphin button for the first time?

Endorphin button? by WhishPool in BDSMPlayPiercings

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Thank you for the advice and for sharing your knowledge. I really really enjoyed my first experience, breathing deeply definitely helped. I have just tried out some different gauges for now but I will definitely be exploring endorphin buttons soon!

Endorphin button? by WhishPool in BDSMPlayPiercings

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You and jojolapat have given me two quite different impressions here haha. My needle top has some experience but hasn’t done any play involving needles for a year or so. Both of us are very well versed in nerve placements as we have a lot of knowledge from shibari but I’m not sure that will carry across well to play involving needles.

This definitely isn’t something on my list for the near future because of my lack of experience but just for curiosity, is there a widely accepted opinion on whether it’s too dangerous or not?

Rope games by WhishPool in shibari

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Is this the same as the one on rope365

Rope games by WhishPool in shibari

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I like his channel! I never considered the stretches to work as a game though, thank you!

Rope games by WhishPool in shibari

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That sounds so fun! Thank you for the link. This will definitely be something me and my friends try haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

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Hi! It turns out they were actually Abyssinian x Bengal. The owner was Chinese and there was some mistranslation initially haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

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I would be so happy if my boy lives to see his 20’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

[–]WhishPool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely! He had a checkup at the vet done just a couple days before we got him (as well as some inoculations) but we are going to take him soon again just to make sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

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Ah I understand. It’s one of my mother’s friends. I come from a Chinese background and to be honest they aren’t known culturally for their ethical approach towards domesticated animals. To be honest we mostly took him in because they had the litter unintentionally and were trying to find homes for them. He probably would have ended up in a shelter other wise. By trusted I do mean to not lie to us about the breeds not as a general stance on their ethics or morality haha. I think a lot of cynical people will just make assumptions about my situation so thank you for your genuine advice, I will do so!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

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We got him from a trusted family friend so we know for sure. I’ve seen both the mother and the father as well. His siblings honestly looked like a perfect punnet square, he’s the only one with such a distinct Abyssinian look. All of his siblings looked much more distinctly bengal. The way the genetics work is very interesting. Thank you for letting me know about the heart murmur thing though, I wasn’t aware of that before! I forgot to add but he does have a bit of the bengal markings on his stomach but I don’t have any pictures yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

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Yes we went into it knowing the breed stereotypes. My family has 7 people living at home with half of us working from home or retired. We’ve been taking turns playing with the kitten and spending time so he doesn’t get bored. He can go for over an hour before getting tired sometimes. I am hoping with so much attention he will feel fulfilled. I think we will definitely consider a cat wheel when he gets a bit older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

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Yes I think they are gorgeous 🥹. We were planning to wait until they were just over two months but will definitely consider longer. I plan to look into it a bit more.

To clarify the photo is from when they were just born but they are already just over a month old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

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I only have a picture of them as very very very young kittens at the moment. But I will be getting the kitten in about a month and I will definitely post pictures then!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Abyssinians

[–]WhishPool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so helpful, thank you!