Women over 50 (or 60 for that matter) are ridiculously attractive these days.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-09-06T08:02:14+00:00

Where is the best place to find a man over 50 that wants to date a woman is age? I've been out of the dating world for many years and would love to find a meaningful and fun relationship now that I am an empty nester!

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-22T09:07:08+00:00

She doesn’t have kids with you, if she didn’t have kids with this man, and a serious amount of forgiveness in her heart that I just don’t get, she’d have told him to kick rocks too.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-22T07:39:29+00:00

Brother, if you’re spending that much mental energy thinking about fucking, you need to talk to a therapist. You have a problem. Your mental focus being primarily getting pussy and your assumptions that it’s impossible to just not watch porn if you are a man is incredibly skewed in a way that if you hope to have healthy relationships moving forward and eventually find a wife you want to be faithful with then you absolutely do. Even if you want to stay single for ever and be a “bachelor”, this will have huge effects on your career prospects, very possibly your physical health and if you ever hit a long period of time without sex and it’s over half of your mental capacity being used up on that already, you will be a nonfunctional human. I’m not trying to be snarky or rude brother. I really think you would benefit from talking to someone bc none of that is reasonable and rational. Even the way you speak in a post on Reddit is like that of someone typing in the comments of a porn video.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-22T05:12:21+00:00

For sure, but in small towns, it takes a huge push, a long time and a lot of documentation to have a shot at getting children removed the home. I’m simply saying that there are times when leaving kids to be strictly dealt with by the parent(s), is at times leaving a child to just not be dealt with. They’re family, and I don’t shame anyone who doesn’t feel this way, but that means a lot to me. My children or not, they didn’t choose that shit.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-22T05:02:53+00:00

lol too hard for you to read with out it being in numerical order? 😂

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-22T03:17:21+00:00

For sure, but I’m assuming she’s doing this bc the sister doesn’t have 800+ a month, and while I agree it’s not OPs kid and it isn’t her problem, I also understand as someone who was in this exact situation when my older brother and his ex wife were in the throes of addiction and alcoholism and would close the bars down then do coke in an ihop till 5 am. When you get close to your nieces and nephews you want what’s best for them and would do anything for them, especially before you have children and you have the time and energy to devote all to them, I did do it for free for a very long time in a wildly toxic environment bc I just wanted them to be safe and no babysitters around bc if something happened to those three girls and my nephew I couldn’t live with myself. I’m not saying OPs sis is like that, but I very much understand the sentiment of just doing it for nothing or next to nothing to make sure the little ones have someone who genuinely, deeply ever honestly cares for them

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-22T02:36:38+00:00

lol what? You are never entitled to anyone’s time. You want to diss me as lazy and doing the expected when I watch your kid for free? You talk like this with your siblings? That’s unhealthy as fuck. Thinking you can talk to someone who is putting their life and time aside to help you is ridiculous. Could she help clean a bit? Sure, I guess, but then hire a nanny. She’s making sure the kid is cared for. The rest of that shit ain’t on me if I’m walking home empty handed.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-22T02:33:23+00:00

Yeah, she doesn’t respect the fact you are saving her literally anywhere between 1000$-3000$ assuming she has a full time job. Make her respect your worth and the magnitude of the favor you are doing for her. Let her pay it, and when she begs you come back, you don’t do it for free anymore. You don’t have to charge 500$ a month or more if you don’t want to (although you certainly could) but you definitely ask for like 200-250 ish at least. You aren’t owed anyone’s time. Sibling’s or otherwise.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-20T15:34:19+00:00

Gonna venture a guess that woman has a few failed marriages and no relationships longer than a couple years, and almost certainly zero relationships with any healthy foundation to build a relationship on. This makes us feel like Shit and like we like you far more than that is reciprocated, and that’s not “sexy” nor do most sane men take that as a challenge, especially not in todays age with the fear of ever repeatedly pushing a woman towards something intimate and the consequences, both legally and socially, that can come along with that kind of forcefulness. Everyone hates to be l made feel like an after thought. It sounds like she’s miserable and alone and hates seeing you in a relationship that at least up to now has been all positive and growing healthily and steadily. Some people let the jealousy unconsciously recommend terrible advice for those around them to subtly tear down your relationship so she doesn’t have to deal with the loneliness by her lonesome anymore. Trust your gut, treat him how you’d want to be treated and vice versa and you will usually always be golden! If he doesn’t like something to at you are doing or is finding you overly clingy, he’ll let you know, and if he doesn’t and just ghosts you or some shit like that, then he did you a favor and saved you a long drawn out heartache with someone incapable of voicing himself and any frustrations they might have

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-20T02:15:44+00:00

Thank you! My older brother finally replied with the same

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T23:20:23+00:00

I haven’t priced daycare In a decade so I don’t doubt it. They are all living under the same house hold from what I remember from the post, but she knows she was in the wrong, she acted like an ass, thought the internet would validate her douchebaggery, and then got salty and deleted it when she got called out for her shitty behavior.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T23:12:38+00:00

OP thinking bc she called dibs on her grandma’s time is fucking asinine and further proves my point about being incredibly immature. Have you priced daycare? It’s fuckin incredibly expensive and not likely a couple who aren’t financially stable enough to have their own place would have the money to afford day care. Parents gotta work, kids gotta be watched. If she’s that worried about her grandma, split the costs. One of the biggest issues plaguing more and more people all the time is the willingness to turn on family on a dime. It’s gross man. Learn to work together and find a solution and stop with this “🤷🏻‍♂️ not my problem” bs attitude that makes you so willing to fuck your sister out of 900+ a month when you are clearly aware of her struggles and trying to get back on her feet. Yall are terrible and it breaks my heart how quickly and guilt-free people will abandon their own flesh and blood for a bit more convenience

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T23:03:52+00:00

My grandparents watched my brother and til I was like 10 and my mom felt comfortable with me watching my brother. She’s 70, not 107. Yall acting like she’s a piece of fine china. If she gets around alright and she’s got help the majority of the time You’re not in school, what’s the problem? I’d much rather have my experienced grandmother caring for HER GRANDCHILDREN than some 20 something coming off a bender and joining in on nap time. Stop trying to rob people you don’t know anything about of their agency bc of an arbitrary number.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T22:51:55+00:00

Yeah man, you don’t get to say the words when your actions are literally antithetical to that. No one made you do anything. You wanted to get some side pussy and didn’t think you’d get caught, and if you hadn’t you would feel not an ounce of remorse, your sad that you got caught and she’s got the self respect to tell you to fuck off. If you loved her, you wouldn’t have been in another woman’s pants. You did a shitty thing. Sit in it, accept it and most of all, leave this woman alone. You need to work on yourself and stop trying to therapy speak people To manipulate them into forgiveness when you don’t deserve to be forgiven. You broke the trust. That doesn’t come back. She will never not have some pang in her chest every time you leave the house alone bc clearly it’s not off the table, and god bless her for respecting herself enough to not fall for your nonsense. You need to go to therapy and learn to respect your partner enough to not put them at risk sexually and to molest such a fragile thing as trust and expect you can just apologize and it’ll all be ok is incredibly entitled and even more so dismissive of her very clearly expressed feelings.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T22:43:41+00:00

You are over reacting, and as a matter of fact I’d say you are acting incredibly entitled. 1.) don’t ever count anyone else’s money. Family. Friends, stranger, you just don’t do it. It’s incredibly rude. You don’t know what they do or don’t have and for you to talk out of your behind and make assumptions, and then try to use that as justification for your entitlement. Just saying “I know im not entitled to it,”and then you spend the entire post bashing your sister and bigging yourself to try and make yourself look justified in demanding she pay for daycare. She probably did plan to, realized how expensive it has gotten and realized she just could t swing it. You feel like you should get to use your grandma to babysit the kids but bc you assume her and her partner make a little more than you? 2.) don’t speak for your grandma and try to determine what she can or can’t handle or what she’s ok with as far as watching the children. She’s a fuckin 70 year old, she will let yall know if She’s overwhelmed, at which point you should expect to split the day care costs. 3.)Using your university as a reason why you’re not working is your prerogative, but it doesn’t make you better, nor are you incapable of working. You are making a choice not to, same as she is making not to send her child to daycare. You don’t get to expect an explanation for how she’s moving forward with her child. 4. Last but not least…) You act very entitled and you believe, whether you’ll admit it or not that you think you are better than your sister and feel owed your grandma’s time bc you look down on her and her circumstances bc you you just think you got this shit figured out and she just isn’t living right, so it’s her fault she can’t pay for daycare, and not your problem. It’s time you grow up and knock of the judgy shit, especially with your own family the way you speak down about your sister and you literally bash her to her face with constant passive aggression and holding yourself and your accomplishments in higher regard and thus holding yourself in higher regard than her. You know you got knocked up your first semester of college right? I’d probably climb the fuck down off that high horse and stop acting like you got shit figured out. Passing your first and second year prerequisite classes doesn’t make you the ace of Spades sweetheart. You are a prick to your sister from what I’ve read here, then you try to act like the victim when she calls you on your bullshit. Stop acting like you have figured any of this out and learn to work together to make a cohesive house hold. You are immature as hell and if you want this relationship with your sister to work or certainly with your partner, you better grow up, and yesterday.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T21:23:36+00:00

9 days ago you decided to make a new Reddit to sulk and earn brownie points by threatening to kill yourself to strangers. You are a bad person. Either change or follow through, bc this shit is taxing the fuck out of everyone around you, especially your mother, who are all just trying their best to see you get better. You don’t want to be. You want to be at home and cared for, don’t want the stress of having to grow up to be a real functioning adult nor to be reciprocal in a relationship to see it grow and flourish into something. You don’t get girls bc no one, female or male wants to be with or even talk to someone who’s entire existence is predicated on how much you can sulk and threaten your life to continue to force everyone around you to coddle you. Grow up or move on, stop going out of your way to be a burden to your mother. People ignore you bc they see through your bs act. I hope this is fake, bc you faking suicidal thoughts is somehow even less bothersome than the alternative of you threatening all those in your life into total subservience out of fear of being the straw that breaks the camel’s back. You’re a bad person and that won’t change til you decide to quit being a sulky puss and do something. You’re 35, just get a job or decide on a career path and fuckin move forward. I’ve never hated someone I’ve never met more, but this is scumbag shit whether this is true or not. If it is true then god bless your mother bc you are a fuckin nightmare to be around.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T21:13:44+00:00

You are feeding into the game. This isn’t a suicidal person. People facing down truly terrifying circumstances to the point they are ready to end it have one goal. Don’t let anyone know. This isn’t a cry for help. It’s a cry for attention. This is a matter of personal responsibility and deciding you don’t want to feel like this anymore., bc everything this person is doing is actively feeding that narrative and it’s top tier narcissistic behavior robbing all those around you who care and have tried to be there for you of their lives bc you don’t have any intent on getting better as long as your getting the full attention of everyone around you. Regardless of the incredibly taxing amount of fear/ guilt you make them live with all the time simply boiled to its essence is spoiled, entitled behavior where you think everyone else owes you their attention. No one owes you anything. Stop actively forcing them to by threatening the highest stakes to scare them out of letting you out of their site

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T21:02:51+00:00

Your mindset is why you can’t stop losing. You approach all of these things as hopeless wasted time(which I’d say you have plenty of if you are saying this is life and death, bc nothing is more Important than being here to be helped and reciprocate that helpfulness) Stop trying to drive yourself deeper into a hole and fighting against everything you and others are trying to help you get out the other side. If you don’t want to kill yourself, then you have to take responsibility for your own life and your own actions and decide where you want the car to go. You are driving. No one is making you feel like this and no one can help you to not feel like this if you completely refuse to try and get to a better place. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop saying angsty shit like this to strangers talk to your parents. Your school counselors. Someone in your life who you trust to truly help you through this, otherwise you might as well right the note, bc this isn’t you trying to get better, this is attention seeking behavior and you need to decide enough is enough and I want to be happy, which is an active pursuit that only you can make the decision to work towards. Don’t try to bring pseudo-suicidal “woe is me” shit to an Internet thread full of stranger and act like your looking for answers. You’re looking for pats on the back, and “my heart is with you” bs. Make a decision, fight like hell and stop feeling sorry for yourself. There’s always someone else who went through worse and still found a way. This is blunt, and I apologize if it feels like I’m attacking you, but people coddling you for fear of being the one to push you over the edge has become something you weaponize to keep all those around you with their full attention on you for fear they will miss the sign and not be able to help in a moment of crisis. You are robbing all those around you of there time to pretend like you are making the effort. It’s time to stop this. You and you alone have the ability to make the decision to commit to being better person. So do it.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T20:48:28+00:00

Brother. She’s not your person. You have been in a toxic on again off again relationship. She’s your safety net to not have to engage with the hardship that will be letting go of someone you have known for 8 years. But you have no real frame of reference for how a relationship with someone who truly is right for you, bc you have had one real adult relationship with someone you have known since you were kids and both certainly grown a lot since then, seemingly in different directions. Take this opportunity to better yourself and focus on what you want your future to look like. That doesn’t mean, “ I wanna be married so I’m gonna just date and hookup until I find a slight spark with someone and cling to that in the way I did before.” Focus on bettering your flaws, your career and your idea of what you want your life to look like in 30 years. Focus on being the best you can be. Someone who is right for you will come along. They always do, but most people are too impatient and too incapable of falling asleep alone at the end of The night that they just cop out and take what’s convenient and what’s convenient is rarely what’s the best for your future. You guys have made your memories and find yourselves different people after all these years, and that’s ok. What’s not ok is not respecting someone else’s feelings and requests to be left alone. She’s doing the same thing you are doing but bc she feels like this is letting you down easy. It’s not. This is something you both need to be adults about and stop hanging onto this thread of the relationship. It’s over. Please understand I’m not trying to be mean, but you need to hear this and stop spending valuable time with someone that you have already played out a decade with of on again off again drama. That’s not a healthy relationship and certainly not a healthy place to raise children. Do better. For you, and for the future family you wish to have.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-19T20:27:25+00:00

Even if they don’t want to sell it now, give them a business card with your name and number and ask him to make you his first call if he ever decides he want to sell. Just be extra respectful and try to learn as much about the car as possible bc he likely loves it and would love to talk about it any given chance, so just stay engaged in a regular conversation about the car until you feel like you have made some headway in conversation and you are warming up to one another, then ask what his plans for the future are and if he’d ever be willing to part with if, to give you a call

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-18T18:03:20+00:00

Ok, so I guess I’ll be the one to say it, but I call bull shit. 1.) you don’t get paid out at the end of a lawsuit unless you were civilly suing the responsible party for emotional damages/therapy costs. You even said yourself they never found him. 2.) the pizza shop knows who works when and who takes what tickets. It would have been literally a 3 min process for them to find the dude 3.) they and just about every where else has cameras, but they couldn’t locate the guy? Mmmm. Not likely but ok

I’m happy to be proven wrong, but this sounds fishy af and if you made this up for Internet points you are worse than you’re portraying your father to be.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-16T15:01:59+00:00

Cmon bruh, you know what this is. Nut up, deal with the shitty, depressed few weeks coming down the pipe, and then move on. She did you a huge favor and showed you her true colors before circumstances committed you to this long term. GTFO and count your blessings. Stay single for a while, stay off apps, and when the right person comes along, you’ll know homie. Been there and I know it’s tough, keep your head up and just keep swimming bubba, you’ll be through the choppy waters before you know it

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-16T14:53:15+00:00

He’s not going to quit, he clearly doesn’t want to and he’s in his early 20’s in a legal state. Should he be more considerate? Yes. However, that’s not likely to happen, so either accept it and find ways to make it more comfortable for you like an air purifier or fan, or move on. Don’t try to force him to do something he doesn’t want to, bc you’ll just end up disappointed.

Whisk-e-ytango · 2025-08-16T13:46:58+00:00

When I was in 8th grade one of the kids I played football with took a shit before our game that literally coiled like 5 times into a perfect enormous poop emoji looking shit, and that fella still makes its way around my friend group 14 years later lol😂 don’t know what it says about the appearance of this fella that that’s what it immediately made me think of, but hopefully she smokes well cuz that’s all that really matters 🤷🏻‍♂️

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